Gravino, James “Jim”

It is with the heaviest of hearts we share that James F. Gravino “Jim”, 74 was unexpectedly taken from us. 

Jim is survived by his loving companion Alice, his son James Gravino, Jr. (Sheree)

survived by grandchildren Kyle (Meghan), Curtis, James, Noah, Abby, Leena, Elowyn, great grandchildren Caleb and Carsen, and Alice’s children Alicia (Patrick) and Nate, brothers and sisters Mike (Janet), John (Judy), Tom (Barb), Don (Marsha), Mary (Gary), Teresa and many loved nieces and nephews.

Jim is predeceased by his son, Matthew Gravino, brothers Chuck and Bernie.

Jim was a gentleman’s gentleman, with a quick wit and a charismatic personality. He was an irreplaceable fixture of Manchester with the ownership of Gravino’s Barbershop, established 1970. After many years of unforgettable memories, he put down his scissors for his well deserved retirement in January 2021. 

Jim will be deeply missed by the many hearts he has touched.

Calling Hours on Tuesday, April 18, 4-7pm at Richard H. Keenan Funeral Home 7501 Pittsford-Palmyra Road, Fairport, NY 14450.

Please join us at his celebration of life at the American Legion in Shortsville, NY, Wednesday, April 19, 2023 1-5 pm.


Comments

53 responses to “Gravino, James “Jim””

  1. John Walton Avatar
    John Walton

    So sad to see this Jim was one of a kinda nicest guy ,we all loved him he will be missed by .many

  2. John Cooley Jr Avatar
    John Cooley Jr

    One of the kindest nicest people with a true sense of humor. So many of us with so many memories sitting in his barbers chair. Rest in piece my friend.

  3. John Cooley Jr Avatar
    John Cooley Jr

    One of the kindest nicest people with a true sense of humor. So many of us with so many memories sitting in his barbers chair. Rest in peace my friend.

  4. Laurie Howcroft Avatar
    Laurie Howcroft

    Another good one gone to soon. Prayers for the family. Keep that motley crew in line.

  5. Mary Zingerella Avatar
    Mary Zingerella

    We lived next door to Jim when we first moved to the area. He was a wonderful neighbor and the fellas in my house sat in his chair many times over the years. The community has lost a terrific person. Condolences to all.

  6. Gina Ross Lonneville Avatar
    Gina Ross Lonneville

    My heart is shattered! Jim was one of the best guys I’ve ever known! Quick witted, handsome, funny and just a charming guy. I will miss you, my friend!

  7. Robert Natoli Avatar
    Robert Natoli

    Fly high Jimmy.?

  8. The Palmer Family Avatar
    The Palmer Family

    Our loss is Heaven’s gain! Jim is truly unique–someone who could light up a room simply by smiling. His infectious laughter, joyful smile, and boundless kindness touched everyone who met Jim. Our beloved mother, Betty Ross, loved Jim, and he treated her with kindness and respect. Our sister Toni, who worked next door to Jim at her hair salon, looked forward to seeing Jim each day. The two had such great banter – and their joy was contagious. Our deepest condolences to Jim’s family and friends for this profound loss. May our Lord and Savior comfort you now and in future days, knowing that we were all blessed to have known Jim.

  9. Ken palmeri Avatar
    Ken palmeri

    This breaks my heart. I never cared about wait for a cut. The stories were the best. I simply love this man. Rest peacefully my friend

  10. Eric Schultze Avatar
    Eric Schultze

    Jim was an exceptional person. One of those who help form you during your impressionable years. He always had time for a haircut and a good laugh. As I grew older he turned into a friend and mentor prior to going off to college and the Army, Over the years he always had time for me when I’d come back to Manchester. I’ll truly miss his smile, his laugh and the gentleman he was! Rest in Peace my friend!

  11. Ellie Warner Avatar
    Ellie Warner

    One of the kindest souls I’ve ever been privileged to know. Some of my fondest memories are of passing the time with Jim in front of his shop near our teenage hangout, Boardman’s, on summer afternoons way back in the 70’s. Later when my father became disabled, without even being asked, Jim came to his home to cut his hair. A darling man who truly made the world a nicer place. See you on the other side…

  12. EJ AND Leslie Wehrlin Avatar
    EJ AND Leslie Wehrlin

    A very kind man who will be missed by his family, and many friends. May you Rest In Peace Jim. ♥️

  13. Jared J Ogrodowski Avatar
    Jared J Ogrodowski

    Yes he was easy to get along with.. I valued his character he was very nice guy and he Jimmy will be missed greatly!! my cousin is in a much better place right now his spirit is free in the presence of the Almighty God!! God bless you Jimmy and all my cousins!! – cousin Jared Ogrodowski!!

  14. TERRY BAUER Avatar
    TERRY BAUER

    JIM WAS THE BEST OF THE BEST.I GREW UP ACROSS FROM HIS DAD’S GROCERY STORE.AND WAS FRIENDS WITH THE WHOLE FAMILY.I STOPPED MANY TIMES AT THE BARBER ? SHOP ,NOT TO GET A HAIRCUT ? I ONLY GOT ONE A YEAR .BUT TO VISIT AND SOLVE THE WORLD’S PROBLEM’S. HE IS A KIND SOUL . GOD SPEED BROTHER

  15. Rich Vienna Avatar
    Rich Vienna

    Lots for words. No words could describe the man we all knew as Jim “the Barber”. Jim was not just the barber he wore the hats of everything from psychologist to farmer to a saint. Rest in peace my friend you were one of a kind

  16. Patricia Gravino Avatar
    Patricia Gravino

    Rest in peace uncle Jim! You are deeply loved and missed. I will never forget how many times I swept up the barbershop. I’m so sorry about this cause I know millions that she’d tears. I love and miss you now and always.

  17. Jeff Kehrer Avatar
    Jeff Kehrer

    No doubt Jim and his barbershop was a staple growing up in Manchester. Rest in peace sir.

  18. Deb Wade-Snell Avatar
    Deb Wade-Snell

    RIP Jim. Such a kind and gentle soul.

  19. Rodney Bailey Avatar
    Rodney Bailey

    Certainly was a pleasure knowing Jim for the last 25 years. He was a generous man and great to do business with. I always looked forward to my haircut! You will be missed, hope you find someone in heaven to harder with you!

  20. Joshua Ogrodowski Avatar
    Joshua Ogrodowski

    My condolences!! Many prayers and blessings!!

  21. Kim Vogan Leonard Avatar
    Kim Vogan Leonard

    I am so shocked and sad to read this anno7ncement. My husband, Danmy Leonard and my Dad, Jim Vogan were loyal customers forever of ” Weasel” Danny and “Weasel” go way back in time. I know Danny will be there to open that gate,I know how much you have to catch up on. I am so very sorry for Alice and your family. Your loyalty and friendship will never be forgotten. God Bless and GODSPEED.my friend

  22. Jonathan Herendeen Avatar
    Jonathan Herendeen

    Loved going to Gravino’s usually Saturdays. Just like it said Jim was a gentleman’s gentleman. RIP

  23. Bobby Woodhams Jr. Avatar
    Bobby Woodhams Jr.

    Jim was a Saint in our little villages. Sitting in the barber shop hearing the stories he had with everyone. As Richie Vienna said, he was the jack of all trades. He knew everything! We sure will miss ya Jim! God Speed!!!

  24. Adam Haskins Avatar
    Adam Haskins

    So very sorry to learn of Jim’s passing. He was a wonderful man and will be.greatly missed.

  25. Linda Frederick Avatar
    Linda Frederick

    My heart is broken over the loss of such a sweet man. Jim was one of a kind and will truly be missed. Rest in peace my friend.

  26. Kelly Coyne Avatar
    Kelly Coyne

    Taken from us way too soon. A true gentleman with a heart of gold. ?

  27. Wilma Holtz Avatar
    Wilma Holtz

    Jim was a great guy! Always good for a laugh and always there to listen. He will be sadly missed~

  28. Kathleen Gravino Avatar
    Kathleen Gravino

    My heart is broken …he was a wonderful, loving cousin and my life was and always will be better for knowing him. I am comforted in knowing he is home safe in the presence of his Lord & Savior Jesus Christ, along with all those that greeted him when he entered heaven. Although many hearts are grieving and missing him here on earth, all heaven is rejoicing…we will see him again. I am sending all my love & many prayers to comfort you at this heartbreaking time. Jimmy would want us to know he is well and very much alive in heaven waiting to greet us when we are taken home. May God wrap His loving arms around you and give you comfort and peace. I love you Jimmy ??❤️

  29. dianne aldrich Avatar
    dianne aldrich

    I was so sad to hear about Jim. My dad enjoyed talking with him and asking about family when he was getting his hair cut. When Dad was no longer able to come to the barber shop, Jim would make time to come to dad’s house and cut it there until Dad was no longer able to do that. Jim was so generous and kind to my dad. We were blessed to have known such a man.

  30. Heather Antonelli Avatar
    Heather Antonelli

    Jim was one in a million! He provided amazing service, the best conversation and always had a lollipop for the kids. He gave the most amazing cuts even when your toddler couldn’t sit still! His name comes up often in our home in discussions of the good ole days. He touched so many lives and will be greatly missed!

  31. Connor cummings Avatar
    Connor cummings

    Jim was a happy and enthusatic human being he was the true word of one and a million he was my barber all my live and always care for me and always asked me hows was i doing and when he retired i cryed but i am gonna cry even more than he is gone take care my friend you will be missed

  32. Cheryl Rose Avatar
    Cheryl Rose

    Truly one of a kind!!! You will be missed!!
    From you cutting my hair ,being a girl in a barber shop, to sitting for your boys when they were young ,to introducing you to my boys ,
    Years later !
    Sooo many memories!!!❤️?❤️

  33. Deborah shannon Avatar
    Deborah shannon

    So sorry to hear this
    He was the nicest barber
    Took my boys there for many years

  34. Christine Schillaci Avatar
    Christine Schillaci

    We are incredibly sad and shocked to hear of this We have nothing but love for Jimmy. Our thoughts are with his family. So long neighbor ❤️.
    Love,
    Christine, Anthony
    Dylan, Ben & Dutch

  35. Vern Brown Avatar
    Vern Brown

    I first met Jim, when I needed a haircut, for a National Guard weekend, when me and my children moved back to the area.
    I told him he only had one shot at this head. He said, ” Don’t worry about it…it’ll grow back an about six weeks.”
    So for the next 20 plus years, Jim cut my hair, my son’s hair and even gave my grandson his first haircut.
    Walking into Jim’s barber shop was like walking into Floyd’s in Mayberry.
    Politics, religeon and the local news was always plentiiful.
    Jim was a warm and wonderful Christian who had a quick wit and gave everyone great respect.
    Jim was more than just my barber. He was a great friend, who will be dearly missed.

  36. Lenny Viccaro Avatar
    Lenny Viccaro

    I met Jim in 1982 when I was appointed PM I’m Manchester. We hit it off immediately both being Veterans and the stories we shared. Jim had an infectious smile that was his trademark. Always a kind words or a shoulder to lean on
    One of a kind. Our friendship grew over the years thru hard times and joyful times. He was a person that you enjoyed being around. Until we meet again in Valhalla my friend may the Lord keep you in his arms with his Legion of Angels.

  37. BRADLEY DONNER Avatar
    BRADLEY DONNER

    I am so, so sad. Jim was the best. Not only did I fully enjoy time in his shop, I also enjoyed my conversations and text exchanges with him. Those usually, but not always, revolved around baseball, his Yankees or my Cardinals. (He is probably cutting Joe DiMaggio’s hair right now!) I will see you on the other side, my brother. In the meantime, my hair will grow…

  38. Jon and Rose Foster Avatar
    Jon and Rose Foster

    When my Mom passed in 1993 Jim came to her calling hours. I later asked my Dad….That was nice of Mr. Gravino to come, did he know Mom? My Dad replied, “he knew me”. Once a friend of Jimmy’s that’s just the way it was. He stuck by and supported his customers and friends. Fly high Jimmy. Watch over Alice and your family. You will never be forgotten nor your compassion, kindness and love for your family and friends.

  39. Bob Good Avatar
    Bob Good

    Jim was a great friend an a great barber I sure am going to miss him ; my best to his Family

  40. Patricia Foster Avatar
    Patricia Foster

    Larry and I are devastated to hear this. Jim was such a gentleman, a great friend and his wit/humor was unbelievable, always laughing with him.
    He will definitely be missed by everyone that knew him. Our deepest sympathy to his family, and also to Alice..
    ??

  41. Bill Eddinger Avatar
    Bill Eddinger

    So very sadden for the loss of a very important person in the life of all of us who knew him. Jim was smart, witty and warm presence for all of us

  42. Peter Hessney Avatar
    Peter Hessney

    Jim was a kind, caring man that left his mark on so many. Rest in peace!

  43. Jason Wagner Avatar
    Jason Wagner

    I am saddened to hear of Jim’s untimely passing. Until he retired, Jim was the only Barber who ever cut my hair…and he charged me the same price whether I was 12 or 45 years old. Jim was a classic gentleman, businessman and philanthropist. He was a friend to the Fire Department; he always hung up our posters for events and sold tickets for raffles. He was a special benefactor to the Christmas Baskets delivered to needy families in the area…any turkeys he won at our annual raffle were secretly re-directed to families in need.

    Several generations of young men learned a few things about respect, good humor and being part of a small town community siting in those barbershop chairs, listening and learning as Jim interacted with customers. The number and variety of people who were in and out of the shop on a daily basis was a cast of characters fit for a well-written sitcom. Everyone had a joke or news of the day to share with Jim. No matter what, they left with a smile, and were reminded to come back with a cup of coffee for Jim. (hot, black and bitter, as he used to say)

    Jim touched so many lives and will be fondly remembered by everyone who had the privilege to know him.

  44. Pepper Van Minos Avatar
    Pepper Van Minos

    My first professional hair cut at the age of 6 was done by Gravino. His humor, his knowledge, his mentoring, and of course his bullshit will be sorely missed !!! RIP my friend ?

  45. Terry and Kim Williamson Avatar
    Terry and Kim Williamson

    Slugo and I will miss his funny wit and humor!! He was a great guy! Our thoughts and prayers are with you all!

  46. ANDY KUHN FAMILY Avatar
    ANDY KUHN FAMILY

    We will miss you Barber. You were a scholar and gentleman. Thanks for the advice!!

  47. Jamey Hadden Avatar
    Jamey Hadden

    Somewhere I have a first haircut by Jim photo and am sure that many in the Shortsville – Manchester area probably do as well, along with wonderful memories of conversations with Jim over the years. He will be missed greatly.

  48. Mollie Ross Avatar
    Mollie Ross

    The man that gave my son and many others a First haircut. Jim was witty, funny and had a great laugh. Always time to say hello when he stood in doorway of his shop. Prayers and thoughts for all his families. Blessed to know Him and to have the opportunity to know his grandsons family.

  49. RAYMOND VENTURA Avatar
    RAYMOND VENTURA

    Wow, a complete shock to learn of Jim’s passing. As a young man growing up in Manchester Jim’s smile and wit was a refreshing change. Jim was a friend to all and never held back on the truth. Jim will be missed, but never forgotten. May God take him home in peace and guide his family through this difficult time. Until we meet again my friend ?

  50. Robin Byerly Avatar
    Robin Byerly

    Happy Trails my life long friend and neighbor. Till we meet again….

  51. Ken Adams Avatar
    Ken Adams

    Jim was a kind and caring man. A real gentleman who will be missed by everyone who had the pleasure of knowing him.

  52. Mark Stewart Avatar
    Mark Stewart

    Jim was a fun friend to me when we lived near him and Judy. A very amusing guy who always liked to laugh and tell jokes. Top man Jim!

  53. BRENDA ADAMS Avatar
    BRENDA ADAMS

    Jim always made me comfortable when I went in and sat with a bunch of men when I took my son and grandson. He cut the hair of my dad, husband, son and grandson.