Patrick E. Fairchild, 62, Beloved Brother
Predeceased by his parents Rita (Strong) Fairchild, C. Earl Fairchild; sister Rita (Bruce) Gleave; brother-in-law Dennis Marra; nephew Nathan Herr-gessel. Survived by his sisters Colleen (Scott) Woodruff, Maureen (Louis) Wolsiefer, Mary Marra; brothers John (Gail) Fairchild, James Fairchild, Daniel (Barbara) Fairchild, sisters Catherine (Leif) Herr-gessel, Jeanne Fairchild, 16 nieces and nephews plus spouses, 15 great-nieces and nephews, 1 great-great nephew and soon to be 1 great-great niece.
Retired from Victot Central School after 20 years.
Patrick’s nieces and nephews were drawn to his sometimes twisted humor and animated stories of history, comedy, even horror instilling great memories and a deep attachment between them.
Patrick reenacted American History battlefield living for 50 years always recounting the companionship of countless people. Richard, he named his “Gandolph”, his father-figure. Pete, ceaseless story teller, wit. ”These two men. ..where else you gonna find men like them. I feel honored for having known them.”
Declining health this past year inhibited Patrick’s realm. He faced each onset with courage laced with humor. These last few weeks saying he was ready to die but wanted to live.
We his siblings, mired in our helplessness bore witness to his pain, confusion, and fear. Inspired by his acceptance as one illness and infection led to another, offering his suffering in the name of his much beloved Mother.
So relieved, Patrick, you are free. Grateful for every moment shared, especially in these final weeks.
There will be a Funeral Mass at Church of the Assumption, 20 East Ave, Fairport, NY 9:00 am on Saturday, September 9th.
Private Interment by Rita’s Kids beside his mother at St. Mary’s Cemetary.
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5 responses to “Fairchild, Patrick E.”
Patrick will be missed by so many people he inspired over the years. I remember his wit and his great smile. I am so very sorry for the loss of this great guy. Kevin & I send our most sincere sympathies to his entire family.
“They gave themselves up to the stars the way swimmers can surrender to the waves, and the stars took them without resistance.” ― Mark Helprin, Winter’s Tale
Uncle Patrick; I envision you riding on the waves that make all of philosophy, intellect, time, humor & history pulse!
Forever grateful to have shared space with you & to have had you a part of my clan.
With a fist-bump & an ‘I love you,’ I will see you on the other side! – Jaclyn
Patrich was a great guy I worked with him for many years at victor schools.The world is a sadder place without him in it.You will be missed by everyone who knew you.Sincerly Your Friend Paul May
Pat was one of my close friends and an unforgettable historical reenactor of various conflicts that will be truly missed. He was very knowledgeable about most everything related to living history and read as many books as he could get his hands on.
I consider myself fortunate to have been with him in the years we had together. My deepest sympathies to his family.
My sincere condolences to Patrick’s family and friends .