Patricia DeSouza was born on December 17, 1946, in Fairport, New York. She dedicated her life to serving others, demonstrating boundless compassion and an open heart. As the second oldest of five sisters, she grew up in a loving home filled with laughter and a strong sisterly bond. Patricia cherished her role as a sister and nurtured an unbreakable connection with her beloved siblings. She was particularly inspirational in her academic pursuits, showcasing her true brilliance. Her deep commitment to helping others led her to proudly serve in the Peace Corps, where she made a meaningful impact in communities far from home. Her time in Brazil inspired a lifelong dedication to assisting those in need and fostered countless friendships around the globe, including her meeting and marrying her cherished husband, Helico (Tony) DeSouza.

Her family was her greatest joy. As a mother, she raised two soccer-loving boys, cheering on Fairport, University of Rochester and Nazareth Soccer, from the sidelines with pride and joy, all while nurturing her boys with love and guidance. Later, as a grandmother, she enveloped her grandchildren in the same warmth, sharing stories, hugs, and the quiet wisdom that made every moment with her feel like a treasured gift. Her kitchen was always open, her arms always welcoming, and her laughter a warm, steady presence in our lives.

We remember her for her dedication to spreading kindness, her unwavering faith, quiet determination, and her remarkable ability to make each person feel seen and valued. Her legacy of love and service will live on through those who were blessed to know her.

She is predeceased by her husband Helcio (Tony) DeSouza, parents Joseph and Anna Jean (Caracci) and Sister Joanne (Caracci) King.  Survived by her sons Charlie (Amy) DeSouza, Andrew (Katie) DeSouza; grandchildren Grace, Hannah Joyce, Abigail DeSouza and Lucca DeSouza, Addison Mary; Sisters Celeste (Gordon) Curley, Peggy (Bill) Birx , Christine (Curt) Dehm, many well loved nieces, nephews, and great nieces and nephews, who will carry her memory forward with love. In honor of her spirit, the family asks that contributions be made to a charity of choice, so her legacy of caring and giving may continue to touch lives as she did so gracefully.

She will be missed deeply, loved eternally, and remembered always. Once a Fairport Red Raider, always a Raider.  May she rest in peace.

Calling Hours Tuesday November 5, 2024 4-6PM at the Richard H. Keenan Funeral Home (Egypt Location) 7501 Pittsford Palmyra Road, Fairport. Funeral Mass Wednesday November 6, 224 9:30AM at Church of The Assumption 20 East Avenue, Fairport.


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10 responses to “DeSouza, Patricia”

  1. ronald noya Avatar
    ronald noya

    A gentle and caring soul. If there is a heaven she is in it. Descanse em paz

  2. Jessica Schaffer Avatar
    Jessica Schaffer

    I was blessed to meet Pat through Charlie and Amy. The time of seeing her visit our church was always full of warmth in heart and smiles! She was so very sweet!…
    Praying for your family during this great loss… With the love of Jesus,
    Jessica Schaffer

  3. Pat and I were very good friends in school and continued it when she was in Fairport. She was a wonderful individual and I will miss her. Prayers fir all.

  4. I am blessed to have met her in October. Smiling, welcoming, kind, and sharing words of how she loves her family dearly. What a beautiful tribute to read. After reading, I smile and am encouraged myself to love better. I can see her strengths and spirit in her family members. What a legacy. 💜

  5. Ginny Gullo Avatar
    Ginny Gullo

    FHS Class of 64 – A sweet, loving woman and we all remember her well. Rest in peace, Pat. our sincere condolences to the family.

  6. Steve Hill Avatar
    Steve Hill

    Pat and I shared classrooms and homerooms for many years in Fairport. She stood apart with a wonderful gentleness that attracted many of us. I am sorry to hear about this and will say a prayer for her. Her life was well spent. How wonderful.
    Hugs
    Steve Hill

  7. Fr Ed Palumbos Avatar
    Fr Ed Palumbos

    May Pat rest in peace and may she be embraced by the loving arms of our heavenly Father and her beloved Tony.

  8. Marile Waterstraat Avatar
    Marile Waterstraat

    Pat’s life story is an inspiration. She was a lovely, caring, dedicated woman. We will miss her deeply. Condolences to her family.
    Fairport class of 1964

  9. Kate Piasecki Avatar
    Kate Piasecki

    Pat and Tony were among the first friends we made when we moved to Rochester. They opened their home and hearts to us, and included us in their many family celebrations.
    I have fond memories of Pat and I baking Christmas cookies while the kids played together. To this day many of my holiday recipes are from Pat’s kitchen.

    We were fortunate to spend several weeks together in Salvador, Brazil in the 80’s when we visited them and they shared their Brazilian life with us. In the years that followed, we only occassionally touched base, but this past year Pat and I talked a few times and caught up on all those years past.
    Pat will always hold a special place in my heart. My condolences on their loss to Charlie and Andrew and their families, and to Pat’s sisters.

  10. Dear Charlie and the whole DeSouza family, so sorry for your loss. It appears Pat has deep roots on the east-side of Monroe County and it shows. Much Love.

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