Adrian Joel Abate passed away on February 12, 2026
Adrian was a graduate of Fairport High School. In his youth he was a member of Boy Scouts and St. John’s youth group, where he made many friends and good memories. He earned an EMT certificate and went on to work for AMR in Rochester, helping people in emergency situations and saving lives. Adrian expanded his repertoire of talents and became certified as a Freight Conductor, where he worked at CSX Railroad.
Adrian was boisterous and social and could start a conversation with anyone. He was a loyal son, brother, friend, uncle and cousin. He enjoyed skiing, pickleball, off roading and watching movies of various genres. He enjoyed many vacations with his family, most recently in Lake Placid.
Adrian is survived by his parents, Matthew and Melinda Abate, sisters Gina Shumski (Alex), Courtney Abate (Joe), Jessenya Rodriguez, brothers Jose Rodriguez and Miguel Rivera, his nephews Finnegan, Maximus and Mateo and nieces Azalea and Avaya, grandmothers Nancy Abate and Ruth Abate and many loving aunts, uncles, cousins and friends.
Calling Hours Monday February 23, 2026 4-6PM at the Richard H. Keenan Funeral Home (Egypt Location) 7501 Pittsford Palmyra Road, Fairport. Funeral Mass Tuesday February 24, 2026 10AM at Church of the Assumption 20 East Avenue, Fairport.
Adrian is forever loved and missed. In lieu of flowers, if so inclined, please make a donation to the Boy Scouts.
17 responses to “Abate, Adrian J.”
Melinda and Matthew,
Our very sincere condolences on the loss of Adrian. Candice was telling me what a wonderful young man he was.
As always prayers and love to you both and your family
Love
Jim and Nancy Francione.
This hurts my heart. My deepest condolences to the whole family. Such a fantastic person. 💔
Rest in peace brother. ❤️🩹
I’m so sorry for the loss of your beautiful son. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Forever grateful for meeting you & having a opportunity to be around you brother you will forever be missed.
Matt and Melinda – our deepest condolences for your loss. We are sending love and keeping your family in our prayers.
Our sincere condolences to your family. Adrian seemed to be full of life and great spirited; he will always be remembered.
There are no words of comfort but always know that God has received another Angel under his wings.
Deepest Sympathy,
Stephanie and Mark Spinelli
Dear Matt and Melinda,
Our hearts are broken to hear about Adrian. We offer our thoughts and prayers to you and your family, hoping for peace and love as you gather with one another in these tough days ahead. Rest In Peace Adrian.
Matt, Melinda, Gina and Courtney,
We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. Keeping you all in our prayers ♥️
I am so sorry for your loss! It was great to meet him a few months ago! Hugs and prayers to everyone.
Dear Matt, Melinda, Gina, Courtney, Ruth and family…
So heartbroken for your loss. My prayers and love are with all of you.
Cindy Miller
Dear Matthew, Melinda and Abate family.
My heartfelt condolences on the loss of your beautiful son. My prayers for your healing, comfort and peace.
God’s blessings.
Margie Pizzarelli Goodison
There are no adequate words to express my sorrow for the entire family at Adrian’s passing. May God be with you all and may he take Adrian under his wings and shelter him in his mercy forever.
To lose a child is to lose a piece of yourself.” – Dr. Burton Grebin
With deepest sympathy
Terrie and Chris Goeddertz
Dear Matt, Melinda, Courtney, and Gina,
I can’t imagine the deep sorrow you all are experiencing.😢
When Tom called to tell me about Adrian, I was in shock.😢
First meeting Adrian at JA when he little, I remember him as an outgoing, lovable child! He was a sweet boy who grew into a wonderful adult!
Having known all of you for years through JA and Assumption, I can honestly say you are the kindest family, truly role models for all of us.
Tom had the good fortune of getting together with Adrian when he was in Albany, and he always spoke very highly of him!
God has taken Adrian into Heaven where he is watching over all of you, his precious family. I hope you find comfort knowing Adrian will always be with you, and someday you will see him again.
You all are in my prayers.🙏❤️
With much love and sympathy,
Karen Pink
I will miss his unique ability to light up a room. Adrian, you will live on with all of us in our memories. My heart goes out to you and your beautiful family, Gina.
To Matt, Melinda, Gina and Courtney,
I’m so deeply sorry for your loss. Sending you all the love and strength in the world.
My sincere condolences,
Brandon