“If you knew him, you felt his love and his caring soul. He leaves an overwhelming legacy behind.”
Jeffrey “Jeff” Barner, 63, of Fairport, NY passed away suddenly Saturday, February 13, 2021. Jeff is survived by his beloved wife, Karen; his two daughters, Lindsay (Joshua) Foote of Fairport, NY and Carly (James) Barner of State College, PA; his stepchildren, Kristi (Eric) Kohl of Webster, NY and Andrew (Kelsey) Stalk of Plymouth, MI; his cherished grandchildren, Remington Foote, George Stalk, and his new granddaughter on the way. Jeff is predeceased by his mother, Coralea Barner and his precious yellow lab, Madison. He is also survived by his father, William Barner; two brothers, William (Kathy) Barner II, Brian (Bonnie) Barner of Scotia, NY and his niece and nephews: Michael (Paola), Daniel (Amanda), Christopher (Jamie), Katie (Jeff), and many other dear relatives, close friends and beloved pets (Khloe, Comet, and new puppy, Sophie).
Jeff loved his New York “Superbowl” Giants, NASCAR and Chase Elliot, classic cars and his 1965 Mercury Comet. Jeff also enjoyed spending time in the outdoors. He loved hiking, kayaking and spending time in the Adirondacks with his family.
Jeff left a lasting impact on everyone he touched. He had a kind and generous heart and was there for anyone who needed him. Because of this, in lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to a charity that is meaningful to you. Please consider leaving your favorite memory of Jeff in the comments section.
Calling Hours Sunday 12pm-3pm at the Richard H. Keenan Funeral Home (Egypt Location), 7501 Pittsford Palmyra Road, Fairport. Private Funeral Service Monday 11AM at the Asbury First United Methodist Church, 1050 East Ave, Rochester. It may also be livestreamed at https://www.asburyfirst.org/worship/live
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26 responses to “Barner, Jeffrey D.”
I will always remember how excited Jeff and Karen were to come to Michigan to visit AJ and Kelsey. They always included the extended family and I was so happy that I was included. Your entire family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Thank you, Kathy. Jeff loved spending time with you
Thanks, Aunt Kathy. We will always remember what a fun time we had on your back patio when Jeff was introduced to your Grey Goose with a splash of cran!
I don’t even know where to start here. A lifetime of stories told, and listened to with genuine interest and care. Hilarious and always encouraged people to go to a fun and entertaining (i.e. inappropriate) place in their conversations. Had a great time introducing him to some of my friends in the classic car scene over the last few years. Very grateful that even after I moved to Chicago, I still seemed to bump into him most of the time when he was in Scotia. Thank you so, so much for all that you’ve done for this family. We will never stop telling your stories and thinking about you.
You couldn’t help but smile around Uncle Jeff! One of my favorite stories was when he came out onto the dance floor during my wedding wearing his Antonio Pierce jersey, and declared that the Giants were going to win the Super Bowl, which they did!
Jeff was simply a “cool dude” nothing phased him, no matter what he always remained at the same pace and never seen him get excited. He loved trying the different micro beers and conversation with anyone. Jeff always talked about his daughters and grand children.
One day he scared the crap out of me, I was in the kitchen and I heard this engine vroom vroom,
I stepped out in the garage and at the “end of the driveway” was this 65 Comet nobody moving in the car and the engine going vroom vroom I sort of freaked out and had flash backs to the movie Carrie. I thought a 65 Comet was going to drop into drive and run me down!
Then the car slowly creeps toward me up the drive way I’m like ok this is real freaky now. Then I see its Jeff with a big smile on his face. Showing me his new 65 Comet, he was so proud of that car. I said man you freaked me out. He goes yeah like the movie Carrie I said spot on man, we laughed.
Our fondest memories of Jeff were always the family get togethers starting in Northville NY with the Barner and Borini clans getting together for dinner or holidays at Aunt coralea”s and Uncle Bill’s house in Scotia….
We know youre with Grandma Olive ,Grandpa Hobert and my parents Lou and Pat looking down on us having a great time , Rest in peace Cousin …We love you..
Lou, Nancy and Anthony Borini
We were so sad to hear of Jeff’s passing. We always had such a wonderful time talking with him and we know it also brought a lot of joy to his father, Bill. We loved hearing Jeff’s stories & even got see his Mercury Comet over FaceTime. We always looked forward to those FaceTime calls because we knew he would make us laugh & make our day a little brighter. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family.
We didn’t know Jeff for very long, but he sure made a lasting impression He was always available to a “neighbor” in need and made himself part of the “Meredith Ave family” very quickly. His loving, caring spirit will always be near. Sending peace to all who loved him. John and Cindy.
Jeff you are the best neighbor one could have..When I was not ,able to cut my lawn you were there there with your “JohnDeer” ,When my garage opener failed you were there with a smile.You loved your 1965 Mercury,,but first your wife, children, and .grand children.I will miss you.Barbro.
I loved Jeff as my boss at RIC. I remember him bringing his classic car to work so everyone could see it. Jeff was a beautiful soul. Jeff was so much fun to be around. I will cherish my memories of him always.
Uncle Jeff, we are going to miss you a lot. You were always incredibly fun to be around and holiday gatherings with you were always a highlight. I’ll forever remember your rendition of the Lollipop Guild song (which Levi and I will continue to do to annoy my father for you) as well as Cabin Colony. Thank you for all of the laughs over the years. Please try to behave up there with Grandma.
Jeff was an excellent coworker and leader. He loved product quality! He was instrumental in our pursuit of excellence and will be greatly missed. Everyone loved Jeff. I will be praying for Karen, and his children, and grandchildren.
Jeff was the best brother-in-law I could ask for. He made the happy times happier, and the sad times a little less sad. We could tell each other anything, and always felt a little better after our talks. I watched him grow from a teenager who danced on top of a bar when he was too young to be in that bar, to the wonderful husband, father, and grandfather that he became. I will miss him more than I can ever express.
I met Jeff at work @ RIC almost 3 years ago. We shared an office and cubicle wall. He was the most sincere man I’d ever met. Never got rattled, never a cross word, and thoughtful so very thoughtful. He genuinely cared about everyone. A brilliant engineering mind that processed everything in his own special way. Jeff and my husband (who also works at RIC in production) shared a love of all things NY Giants. During this trying past year I will always remember Jeff coming back after quarantine and showing myself and Robin the picture of him all dressed up in his Sunday best to watch the livestream of his church’s Sunday Morning Service! Best photo ever! I miss him & the sunshine he brought everyday to the office. How blessed everyone who knew him and loved him were for having met him
We always enjoyed our time with Jeff. We saw him and Karen at MSU tailgates and family gatherings with AJ and Kelsey. Jeff was such a warm, friendly person. We will miss the conversations and laughter while tapping into each other’s cooler for the latest microbrew. Our deepest sympathy to Karen and the entire family.
While I did not know Jeff, I do know his daughter Carly and if she is any indication of the man he was then we are all better for knowing them both. Carly, your Bennett Family has you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.
RIP Jeff. May God bless you and keep you in his loving arms.
My brother Jeff….I will miss you dearly. Jeff was nothing less than a great man with a kind sole. His family was always first. I have so many memories growing up. Trips to camp at Schroon Lake in the summers, Sunday rides to our Grandparents in Edinburgh in Dad’s Ford Country Squire station wagon. Jeff was always full of fun. Life of the party. Us three brothers over recent years all bought classic cars.. Jeff’s, that beautiful 65 Mercury Comet Caliente that he was so proud of. Last Fall we all got together with a few other friends and had our own cruise in at Mr. Bill’s Drive In in Ballston Spa. Jeff drove that hot rod all the way from Rochester. We were all so happy. My brother….God Bless and Rest in Peace.
Jeff and I worked in the labs for a number of years while he went to Robert’s Wesleyan college at night to become an engineer.
Shortly after that I started working for him. Our families became close. I watched his girls grow up to become beautiful women.
My daughter told me ge other day, that he and Donna gave her a crib for my grandson Nick.
Thats the kind of persons he and Donna were.
Jeff brought me to my first NASCAR event at Watkins Glen. From that time on we net at his house for the Daytona 500 every year. We would take turns cooking the meal for the day.
Jeff, Brian and myself went to the Glen and Michigan race tracks to watch NASCAR races. I remember that one year in Michigan, we went to a gi cart track on a rainy afternoon on our way back to our hotel. It was a blast as we sprayed water from our tires all over each other. What a great memory.
There are so many more memories,7 too numerous to mention here. Rest in peace my brother from a different mother.
Jeff will be sadly missed as our neighbor and friend on the loop. His contagious humor and welcoming smile will be remembered and of coarse he is the master of fixing cars, lawn mowers and many other challenges.. Rest in Peace Jeff and God be with you..
Dear Karen and family, Thinking of you during this difficult times. Remembering the fun we all had at Walnut Hill. Love and Prayers Ron and Linda
Jeff was a pleasure to work with for many years in Honeoye Falls. He was a kind and gentle person who was always available to help when needed. My prayers go out to you and your family for comfort, peace and hope as you are grieving. “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” Rom 15:13
When I think about Jeff I think about an amazing man. He was a good listener, he always had a funny story to tell, he loved his family and he was such a giving person. I remember all of the time he spent with my Mom and Dad and how much he liked goofing around with all of us. God Bless you, Jeff–thank you for all of the memories and know that you are sorely missed. We love you dearly.
Jeff you were much more than my brother,you are my best friend,my hero,I will forever have you in my heart! I love you!
Sad to hear of Jeff’s passing, a total shock. Jeff and I worked together at Xerox and then at Transact in Ithaca. He was one of the finest people I have encountered in my career. My condolences to his family. Life passes too quickly, live and give glory to God.