Patricia Ann Bonosky, 71, passed peacefully at home on October 25, 2025, surrounded by her loving husband and children.
In her final hours, her family filled the room with laughter and joy, sharing cherished stories of growing up with a mother as incredible as Tricia, a testament to the warmth and love that defined her life.
Tricia was a woman who never met a stranger. Her gift for connection transformed every encounter into a moment of genuine warmth, and her patient, loving, and kind spirit touched so many. Tricia made everyone she met feel seen and special. Her giving nature was endless, whether supporting local small businesses, championing causes she believed in, or simply being present for those who needed her. You could always expect at least three cards from her on your birthday, just because they reminded her of you.
A lifelong admirer of Susan B. Anthony, Tricia embodied the reformer’s fearless spirit. She was a passionate advocate for women’s rights and a firm believer in democracy, taking pride in every opportunity to vote and encouraging others to exercise their right and to support their local communities. She taught everyone the importance of being kind, caring, and respectful. She preached freedom for all individuals, supported personal choice, and was never silent about the importance of human rights for all. One of her favorite quotes from Susan B. Anthony reflected her own approach to life: “Cautious, careful people, always casting about to preserve their reputation and social standing, never can bring about a reform.”
Her love for the arts enriched her life and inspired those around her. A prolific reader, she found joy in stories and being transported to different times in history. She loved visiting art museums to see the latest exhibits. Most of all, she loved attending performances, whether they were at The Geva, at the RPO, on Broadway, or any show where she could see her daughter perform. She was a supporter of all things creative. Tricia was always “singing and dancing in the rain.”
But above all, Tricia’s heart belonged to her family. She loved them endlessly and fought for them every day. She supported her children and their passions endlessly; always in their corner for every moment, big or small. She encouraged them to travel the world, follow their hearts, and pursue lives full of adventure.
Watching her be a Mimi brought out the brightest light in her grandsons and her children. Watching her be a daughter and sister showed us the definition of devotion and dedication. Watching her be a wife taught us what family means. Experiencing her as a mom showed us what unconditional love felt like.
Tricia lived her values fully and without apology. She showed us that a life well-lived is measured in compassion and friendship. Born and raised in Pittsburgh, she carried her hometown pride wherever she went — a devoted Steelers fan whose loyalty matched her heart. Her legacy is one of love and the lives she touched with her generous spirit.
She is survived by her devoted husband (Robert), children (Adam, Chelsea and Garret) and grandsons (Rowan and Hudson), and sister Mary Jo, who will continue to honor her memory by living with the same courage, kindness, and commitment to a life well-lived that she showed them every day.
Calling Hours Friday November 7, 2025 4-6PM at the Richard H. Keenan Funeral Home (Egypt Location) 7501 Pittsford Palmyra Road, Fairport. Funeral Mass Saturday November 8, 2025 12:30PM at Church of the Transfiguration 50 West Bloomfield Road, Pittsford. The Mass will also be livestreamed at https://www.pittsfordmendoncatholic.org/funeral.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in memory of Patricia to help continue the causes she cared most about:
– Follow the link, and click “Tribute and Memorial Giving” and include “Patricia Bonosky”
– Checks can be sent to 500 University Ave, Rochester, NY 14607 (attn: Advancement office) and include Patricia Bonosky in the memo or in a note accompanying the check.
Suan B. Anthony House:
56 responses to “Bonosky, Patricia A.”
You will be greatly missed. ♥️
Bob and family,
I am very sorry for your loss. Trisha was a beautiful vivacious lady. I remember one specific time I picked her and Chelsea up early at your home to go to a race at Watkins Glen. The best parts of her will always be in you and Trisha’s family and friends.
My heart is with all of you.
Sending love and heartfelt condolences to the Bonosky family. Tricia was a beautiful light that warmed everyone around her. I feel fortunate to have known her. 💜
Bob Adam Chelsea and family
In 1987 Adam and Evan, our son, attended Penfield Village Nursery School as kindergarten together.
No child was picked up in a culdesac in Perinton not even if 4 years old in those days
Pat and I fought the school Transportation
Department vigorously and relentlessly.
It didn’t work but we tried so hard.
20 YEARS LATER Trans Super…Mr Shepard became our neighbor.he said…
HI Wendy. How are you at Pat doing.
he remembered us as trouble with a smile.
We ran across each other over the years quite often
She told me she worked at channel 8 here in Rochester the 70s Most importantly had worked with my brother, Scott Harris, as an excellent station videographer..I still loved hearing this over and over as my brother met an untimely death in his 50s working then in Pittsburgh
A few years ago I saw her running into Crosskeys holding a stuffed animal for comfort for blood work. I had just come out and reassured her the little girl Inside was not crying. We giggled
Little did we know the future
Somehow our paths just seemed to always cross more recently on FB…
Through her body challanges she held her good humor and analytics and fight
I will truly miss you Tricia
Your soul. Your love. Your caring for others
God bless your family and all us as friends
Love wendy
Tricia was a special person – kind to everyone. She was a light who shone on everyone. She found the good in everything. She will be missed.
A beautiful life cut far too short. I like to think that she will somehow even in spirit weave her own unique flair in the world. Blessings to you her dear and much loved family.
The Bonosky Family
Pat was a great lady and good friend to all. I knew her from Mercy, she will be missed.
Beautiful and kindest person you would ever want to know. Her bright light is now shining in heaven. ☀️
Will miss you forever. God bless the Bonosky family.
Bob and family,
The world is a lesser place right now. I will miss Tricia . She was such a supportive person and helped me so much. May she rest in peace among the angels and may all mourners be comforted.
Most sincerely,
Laurie Farber
i will miss you so very much, trish. you were sweetness personified.
my deepest sympathies to bob and your family.
The best neighbor a family could ask for. Always an ear to listen or a cheerleader in our corner. We can’t believe you are gone. But we are grateful to have known you.
Much love,
The Harrison Family.
Thanks for being so friendly to us when we moved into the neighborhood. You are the person we remember being the most welcoming. Since that day, you’ve been nothing but supportive. We miss you already. You were a friend to all of us and we are blessed to know you. -The Blodgett family
Such a beautiful person inside and out. My heart hurts for her family and friends. A true gift she gave me of friendship. I know you gained your wings as you always are an angel.
I am positive that Tricia is deeply grateful for how well you knew her, and knew what she valued most!!! These words define her perfectly!!! Thank you!!!! I love all of you!!!!
~ Annie
We were so sorry to hear of Tricia’s passing. She was the epitome of kindness and grace. Her friendship will be a treasured memory.
Sylvia Sheret & Jeff Newman
My deepest condolences are with the family. I have very fond memories of Mrs. Bonosky growing up. She loved her family fiercely! She will be greatly missed by many. Praying for peace and comfort for the family during this difficult time.
My heart goes out to your family. Tricia is gone too early to enjoy those blessings you all brought to her life. You knew her unconditional and devoted love which burned brightly in her. A gift she gave so freely and in abundance. May you be surrounded by that every day and in the years to come. She’ll be advocating for you and shining down on your little ones from heaven. I was blessed to have known her.
Thinking of the entire Bonosky family at this time. I will be online with you all next Saturday for the service.
Love,
Hunt
Tricia was an incredible woman. She loved her family, friends, and community fiercely. Please know we truly share in your grief. The memories you all have will keep you smiling forever.
My heart is with the entire family during this difficult time. Sending you all love and light. I have so many fond memories of Mrs. Bonosky while growing up dancing with Chelsea at Draper. She loved her kids endlessly. May she rest in peace ❤️
Tricia’s gift of personal outreach to all she met will be greatly missed!! Her bright smile and wonderful sense of humor I will always remember. So very sorry for her loss to her Family whom she loved fiercely!! May your many loving memories of your Wife, Mother , Sister and Grandmother help to ease your hearts and in time bring you all healing.
I remember talking about her becoming a grandmother and choosing “Mimi”, in honor of my mother Mimi! We rekindled our relationship this year, which I am so glad. I think I see her waving a ‘terrible towel’ in Heaven! I too, am a lifelong Steelers fan, even though I now reside in Tucson. I pray her new home will bring her everlasting peace. I pray for her family and friends to heal by continuing to talk about her daily. I am her first cousin from Pittsburgh.
Holding space for everyone touched by Tricia’s passing (fondly known as Mrs. Bonosky to many of us Draper dancers). She is an incredible person that I was fortunate to know through Chelsea. In the last few years- I greatly enjoyed her shoutouts to Bills fans on Facebook as a diehard Steelers fan. I will think of her ALWAYS when watching a Steelers game! Xoxoxoxoxoxo
I was so sorry to hear of your loss!!!! I went to grade school with Trish and always remembered her for being so kindhearted.Many years later we reconnected on the OLG Facebook page. I also went to high school with Bob. Hoping your fond memories will guide you through the difficult days ahead♥️♥️♥️
Love,
Maureen (Flaherty) Nelson
Tricia was the friend that was always there whenever there was any kind of need. Always willing to help and support, she was the ray of sunshine everyone needed. She was the kindest, most genuine person I had the privilege to call “friend.” I know she is dancing with the angels because she was already an angel on Earth.
Trish walked into my yoga class and there was an instant connection between the 2 of us. She brought so much joy and light into that class. The conversations we shared over the years were always inspiring and heartfelt between the 2 of us. When I moved to VT in 2020 we continued to stay in touch. One particular moment in my life that was very challenging she was right there by my side with her love and wisdom. My heart broke when I heard the news of her passing. But, she believed in the angels that I have no doubt she has earned her wings and is watching over all of us who loved her so. Fly free my friend
Tricia’s smile and empathy warmed the hearts of people she met. She made the world (and my life) a better place. Sending hugs and prayers to her beautiful family.
Dear beautiful family,
So many words in your beautiful tribute touched my heart and soul as Trish did. A friend , a neighbor and one I was always ready to join the cause with. Her joy and love brought sunshine to our world.She was a precious snow queen always sharing light and love. She was contagious and her joy made the world a far better place.i truly love my precious friend and neighbor. My sadness for you has no words.Neither does my now joy for her. She truly ran the race and finished first in love , complete, you and hope.
Bonosky family, So sorry to hear about the passing of Trisha. We spent many hours together volunteering in the mid 1990s to early 2000s at Brooks Hill school where our two sons attended. Whenever we worked an event she always talked about her family! She was so very proud of the accomplishments of her children! She always had a smile on her face! She will be missed. Cherish all of the memories of her people will share with you in the next few weeks❤️
She was truly one of the loveliest human beings I have ever met. We met at the Brooks Hill PTA & “she never met a Stranger” is absolutely true. We kept in touch throughout the years & finally on FB. Her energy and light and positive spirit were a blessing to anyone who knew her. Bless her sweet soul and her family.
My lovely Theatre pal. She came to almost everything I was in, to cheer me on
She had my grandchildren over to play in her pool. We live down the street from each other and it was a joy to come see her. I truly loved her. My husband, Michael and I will be forever grateful for her. She lit up a everyons’ life.
My deepest condolences.
My heart is with you.
Tricia attended my yoga classes for a period of time. She had a smile for everyone and always brought warmth to the room. My deepest condolences to her family.
Bob and family,
So very sorry to hear about your loss. My prayers are with you. May God comfort you and your family
Bonosky family . I am so very sorry for the great loss of a wife, mother, sister, a friend, a Mimi and a beautiful human being . She loved her family immensely . so proud of each and every accomplishment . I grew closer to Trish’s heart and soul during a faith formation at Transfiguration, the 19th Annotation, she was always so loving, so caring . opening up your house with her delicious hospitality . Trish was a beautiful, soft and kind hearted soul . I will remember her laugh . her brilliant smile which lit up every room . her great faith . she was a strong and grateful warrior . Trish knew how to ♥️ LOVE ♥️ life . she put her everything into everything . she loved her Pittsburgh Steelers . . and cheered on our Buffalo Bills . she supported, cheered on and loved her community . Trish Bonosky was an extremely special human who touched my heart and the hearts of so many . she will be greatly missed . please reach out to your never ending support system . we are all here and ready to help in any capacity needed . you are all on my mind and in my heart . May God bless Trish and your beautiful family . ✨
I met Tricia over 20 years ago and she shared with me some ‘life advise’as I was going thru the loss of my brother…I never forgot it and have thought of her often over the years.God bless to all
She was a true gift. I am blessed that she shared herself with me and my family. I can never forget her. Sending love to her family. She loved you so. ♥️
So sorry for your loss. Our connection was through Susan B Anthony. Patricia- always a welcoming and friendly ray of sunshine who made people feel comfortable and valued.
Tricia was the room parent every teacher wished for. As Adam and Garret’s third grade teacher at Brooks Hill, Trish was in and out of my classroom in her very special way – so respectful of me , always smiling and genuinely delighted to help out and be a part of our activities . She became a friend and whenever we would see each other, she would catch me up on her three with a sparkle in her eye and the most love and pride in her voice imaginable. Of course, our chats always ended with a hug. Sending many hugs to the Bonosky family . Your mom was a very special lady.
Karen Barbato
Tricia was the room parent every teacher wished for. As Adam and Garret’s third grade teacher at Brooks Hill, Trish was in and out of my classroom in her very special way – so respectful of me , always smiling and genuinely delighted to help out and be a part of our activities . She became a friend and whenever we would see each other, she would catch me up on her three with a sparkle in her eye and the most love and pride in her voice imaginable. Of course, our chats always ended with a hug. Sending many hugs to the Bonosky family . Your mom was a very special lady.
Karen Barbato
There truly are no words to describe the Joy Tricia shared when we would see each other at church on Sundays. She made a difference in so many lives. Love you and miss you. You will be missed beyond measure LYTTS…AB
Tricia was such a bright light, and touched everyone she met through her warmth, kindness, and positive energy! My prayers are with her family that she loved so dearly. Tricia absolutely beamed with joy and love whenever she spoke about Bob and her beautiful children and grandsons. I am so grateful for your friendship, Tricia and I will miss you, dear friend.
Bob and family,
My deepest sympathies for your loss. Tricia was a very kind and loving person. She will be missed.
Love, Terry Gubitosi
Bob Debbie and I are very sorry to hear about Pat . Always a kind and thoughtful person. She opened her home to us and every one she knew . Our thoughts and prayers to you and your family. .
Give my me a call when you have a chance 954-459-0564 again I am so sorry to hear .
So sorry to hear of her passing at such a young age. Although I didn’t interact with her often, I found her to be very outgoing and friendly.
I am sure that Bob and the entire family will enjoy the memories of such a wonderful wife mother and grandmother. The lost of her presence will be a loss to anyone who knew her.
So sorry!
Happy Heavenly Birthday. We love you.
I watched a tv program last evening that featured songs from the upcoming movie Wicked and I thought, “this is the movie MAGA is condemning for its acceptance and celebration of diversity. And, in spite of all this opposition, the movie will still go on. For a brief couple of hours it will provide us with respite from the ugly reality we are living in.
I watched and thought of Trisha. She loved the Arts and would have loved wheeling into the theater to escape into that alternative reality for a few moments. She would have returned home to her hospital bed to perhaps dream of it. That was Trisha. She was a model to emulate when times are sooo tough.
Having seen her mother’s life in a wheel chair, she dreaded a fate that might end in a wheel chair. She didn’t want it. But, when it became her reality, she accepted it and was determined to thrive in it. She told my wife she’d deal with it because she wanted to continue to experience the joy she derived from her family, her friends, and her world. She was a survivor; she was someone who decided she would accept her new reality and learn to like it. She was truly brave.
She will always be one of my few heroes. I’m sad to have lost a good friend. She was a friend to many and, as her friends know, once you were her friend, you had a source of immense encouragement and a champion.
Trisha, good friend to me and many others; good Catholic; good human being; good mom to Chelsea, Garret, and Adam; good mimi for to her grandsons; good wife to Bob; patron of the Arts; and more, I am better off for having known you. Your kindness, respect, genuine care and interest in all who you met will always be remembered. We will all miss you dearly.
Tricia was an amazing woman. We met years ago when Tricia hired me to help with her house. She was holding Garret, he was an infant. We’ve had fb conversations about Susan B, our children and books we have read. I with others will miss her.
Fly high Tricia! a very special lady.
I cannot believe you are gone, but already we see and feel your spirit. The Bills and the Steelers both won last week and neither team was favored. Are you already working your new magic?? We will miss you, but you have left a legacy of happy memories, joy, and laughter. Your job here was shorter than any of us wanted, but thank you for being you!!
So sorry for everyone’s loss of Patty (Tricia). In addition to what has already been mentioned, I feel Patty was Very Wise. I could describe a confusing situation that happened to me. She, with laser focus could tell me what Really was going on!
With her innate sense of style and design, she was able to give Goldilocks gifts. The treasured V Bradley bag she sent me 7 years ago still travels with me each day.
A voracious reader. Her love of reading goes back to the days when her father would take her to the bookmobile parked in the Bridgeville Shopping Center.
Patty you left too soon – too young. Thank you for the kindness you gave me.
Bob I don’t know how to tell you how devastated we are of your loss. Karen and she had many laughs and we will remember her forever Hugs Rick and Karen.
Bonosky Family,
Our deepest condolences to you. We are so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love, Diana and Hailey Cook
I would be remiss not to send condolences to all of you! PVNS is where I first met the Bonoskys. We were parents at a curriculum night, hoping that we had made the correct choice for our children (Adam & Meredith )😁 I wondered who that ‘stylish’ pregnant woman (Garret) was (?). Little did I know that she would be an impressive figure and supporter for me in my career.
From PVNS, a summer play date, to Brooks Hill School and Bonosky Ford, your family was directly in my life for many years.
Time has passed but in reflection there are those people who leave an indelible lasting impression. Your wife, mom, sister, grandmother, Tricia did that with me. Whether in school or Wegman’s, she was a light and interested in me.
One year at Christmas (probably Chelsea & Garret), a gift showed up on my desk (always messy). It was a hand-painted glass ornament. I have always treasured this token and it goes on my tree every year! Just a sweet reminder of a warm past.
Thinking ahead of the holiday, I couldn’t bear the thought that I would just put that little gift of appreciation on my tree of joy, without acknowledging Tricia.
I see all of your faces when I decorate my tree. Of course everyone stays younger😁
That ornament will be positioned in a prominent spot (as it usually is . I will think about all of you, each face young and eager but I will always be stunned in my memory by the warmth that one particular face could bring to my senses, pure sunshine!☀️
PEACE!
Rosemary Reilly
Thank you, Reilly. This was a lovely note.
Bob and Family, You have my deepest condolences on the passing of Tricia. Whenever I saw her she made me feel very special and extremely welcome in her presence. She always had a beautiful smile and warm words for me. She will be missed!