Barbara J. Cain, 88, of Fairport, NY, passed away peacefully, surrounded by family, on Sunday March 24, 2024. She is predeceased by her husband, of 63 years, William. She is survived by her three daughters, Debbie (Peter) Bruno, Sherrie (Bill) Maysick, Marcia (Matthew) Pohl, and six grandchildren, Emily Pohl, Benjamin (Samantha) Maysick, Michael Bruno, Courtney (Casey) Maysick MacClaren, Jennifer (fiancé Jack Lenahan) Bruno, and Megan Pohl.
Calling Hours Monday April 1, 4:00 – 6:00 PM at the Richard H. Keenan Funeral Home (Egypt Location) 7501 Pittsford Palmyra Road, Fairport. Funeral Mass Tuesday April 2, 11:00 AM at St. John of Rochester Church, Fairport, NY.
Barbara was born in Rochester, NY on June 28, 1935. She attended Sacred Heart Elementary School, Nazareth Academy, and Nazareth College. Barbara went back to college after raising her daughters. She graduated from MCC and continued on to receive a B.S. in Psychology from SUNY Brockport. She was a Child Associate in Primary Project with the Rush Henrietta School District. She volunteered for over 20 years in the St. John of Rochester Stephen Ministry program. She thoroughly enjoyed her work, though her true pride and joy came from being a wife and mother, raising her daughters, and supporting her six grandchildren. She was the true matriarch of the family, a role model for all who encountered her wisdom and kindness.
She and her husband, Bill, had a thirst for knowledge which punctuated their lives. They took courses simply because they were interested in learning something new. Their travels centered around exploring the history and culture of places like Cambodia, Hong Kong, Peru, Egypt, Vietnam, Australia, Kenya, Tanzania, and Thailand. Their idea of a river cruise included the Yangtze and the Amazon. They met the people of these countries and were fascinated to learn their traditions. Their home was filled with treasured books and photographs of their world travels and stories were often shared with family and friends.
Barbara lived her life with grace and purpose, always being conscious of her impact on others. She greeted every caregiver at the Jewish home by name and asked about their day and their story because she was genuinely interested, despite her pain or discomfort. We offer a heartfelt thank you to the staff of the third floor for the compassionate care they showed her throughout her stay.
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4 responses to “Cain, Barbara J.”
“Mrs. C” was a beloved 2nd mom to my wife Ellen. Ellen will carry many fond memories of her times at the Cain household. She even heard the news of our engagement before our families! A great lady who will be missed dearly.
Sending our Sincere and Deepest Sympathy to Debbie, Sherri, Marcia, your Husbands and the Grandchildren. Your Mom/Grandma is a Treasure that will never be forgotten or replaced. You are her Cherished Legacy of a Loving Life, well-lived and dedicated to her Family. May she now Rest in Peace in her Forever Home with Jesus. Keeping her and all of you in Prayer with Love.
You truly were the 4th Cain girl Ellen. Oh so many memories; of Kool-Aid, popcorn, chocolate chip cookies, forts, and camping out, We will hang on to those memories and take solace in the idea of ‘Our Mom’ being at peace. (Thank you Mark)
I enjoyed Barbara and Bill’s visit to our Corrigan homestead in Ontario Canada. She reminded me of Jackie Kennedy and I told her that. She smiled and thanked me. She was a very gracious lady. May she rest in peace