Rose E. Dreher (LaForce)

7/9/1924 – 8/19/2024

Webster: Passed away on 8/19/2024 at The Maplewood Nursing Home with loving family at her side. 

Predeceased by husband Donald Dreher, brothers Charles and Walter LaForce, daughter and son-in-law Margaret and Jimmy Johnson, and daughter-in-law Suzanne Dreher. 

Rose is survived by sons Raymond (Elaine Tunaitis) and Paul; daughters Donna (Tom) Dwyer, Katherine, and Janet (Tom) Anthony, 13 grandchildren and 26 great grandchildren, as well as many nieces and nephews. 

Rose grew up off Ridgeway Ave in the city of Rochester with her parents and two younger brothers.  She attended John Marshall High School and graduated in 1942.  After high school, Rose worked at Kodak.  Shortly after starting work, she met and married Donald Dreher in 1946.  They settled in Gates where they raised their 6 children. Rose belonged to St Helen’s Church and volunteered there. 

 Rose and Don enjoyed traveling with their family and friends which included many cruises and cross-country driving trips.  They frequented national parks, Europe, and the Caribbean.  They owned a home in St. Thomas in the US Virgin Islands in the hopes of one day moving the family there, although they built a life they loved in Rochester and never made the move to St. Thomas.  As their family grew, they spent time traveling with their children and grandchildren, spending summer vacations in the Finger Lakes or the Adirondacks. One of our fondest memories is when they brought the whole family (28 people) to Walt Disney World for Christmas and New Year’s 2000. 

In her spare time, she enjoyed playing bridge with neighbors and friends. She was a great scrabble player and also enjoyed working on puzzles.  Competitive streak never ending, Rose is best known as an avid bowler, serving as VP of the Rochester Women’s Bowling Association for 10 years and participating in bowling leagues well into her 80s. She was inducted into the Bowling Hall of Fame for Meritorious Service in 1992. She bowled in 37 national tournaments and once bowled on Bowling for Dollars. Rose was a real estate agent with King Arthur Realty in her fifties. She proudly served as a member of the Gates Lion’s Club where she earned the Melvin Jones Award. 

They were the owners of Sunset Valley Manufactured Home Community in Webster for 30 years.

Rose and Don bought a cottage on Conesus Lake and remodeled it into their home that they enjoyed for over 25 years. Their Lake Home was “party central” for many family and friend gatherings. They hosted several events like family reunions, fraternity parties, bowling parties, Lion’s Club parties as well as many family gatherings and holidays. 

Rose and Don often opened their home and hearts to many extended family members, boyfriends, girlfriends, spouses and even ex-spouses of their children!

At the ripe young ages of 81 and 86 they decided to build a home in Webster where they lived from 2006 until 2020. 

Rose cherished her family and friends. She attended many events of her children and grandchildren. We cannot begin to count the number of birthdays, baptisms, first communions, confirmations, school graduations, showers, weddings that she attended with family and friends. She really took pride in all her children’s and grandchildren’s events and achievements, watching them grow and mature. 

Rose was our mother, the matriarch of our family. We all feel so lucky to have been raised by such an amazing mother and woman. She will be truly missed by all who love her!

We wish to thank the staff of The Maplewood Nursing Home for the care they provided our mother, they were compassionate, loving and always treated her with dignity. 

Calling Hours Friday August 23, 2024 4-7PM at the Richard H. Keenan Funeral Home (Egypt Location) 7501 Pittsford Palmyra Road, Fairport. Funeral Mass Saturday August 24, 2024 10AM at St. John of Rochester Church 8 Wickford Way, Fairport.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Rose’s memory to the Gates – Greece Lions Club.


Comments

11 responses to “Dreher, Rose E.”

  1. Jim Fiannaca Avatar
    Jim Fiannaca

    My condolences to Paul and family. I’m glad Rose lived such a full and fulfilling life. Now she is reunited with her husband and other family members.

  2. Cristina Lazzaro Avatar
    Cristina Lazzaro

    I am so sorry for the family’s loss. She really was a wonderful person and will be missed by so many.

  3. Diane and Bruce Celento Avatar
    Diane and Bruce Celento

    I am so sorry we will be out of town and will miss Rose’s calling hours. To say she was a “Special Lady” would be an understatement. We will treasure our memories of Rose on our annual Fall bus trips to New England, sitting in the front seat, like the Queen she was. I am sad for all of you, but know that you all have many wonderful memories, as well. Now she is with Don again (maybe she can finally keep him in line and get him to stop showing his old fishing pictures like they were taken last week). Just saying her name brings a smile to our faces. So sorry for all of you …….

  4. Pattie (Pudney) DiStasio Avatar
    Pattie (Pudney) DiStasio

    My deepest condolences Paul and your family. I loved your Mom and saw her at many bowling funtions threw the years.

  5. Thomas Thaney Avatar
    Thomas Thaney

    Ray and Paul so sorry to hear about your mom. She was a very special lady and I have many fond memories of her throughout the years. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  6. Janet Quetschenbach Lau Avatar
    Janet Quetschenbach Lau

    My deepest sympathies to Rose’s family. She was a great lady. So many wonderful memories of bowling with her. GOD bless you Rose.

  7. Mike Donner Avatar
    Mike Donner

    I met Rose as she was the realtor of the house we still live in. I found out her husband and my grandfather were good friends. Then years later, I met her again as she was a Gates Lion and I was in the Lions Club of Chili. She was a great person and so nice!!!

  8. Rena Lubberts Avatar
    Rena Lubberts

    Sorry to hear of Rose’s passing. I met Don and Rose 43 years ago when moving into Sunset Valley. They were wonderful people. I think I am the oldest tenant still living there. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.

  9. Mary-jo Bromley Farrell Avatar
    Mary-jo Bromley Farrell

    Condolences to the Dreher family on behalf of the Bromley family. It’s been a long time since Arrowhead Drive, yet our parents always spoke fondly of your family when they were still alive. What a beautiful life your mom lived, surrounded by a large loving family.

  10. Mary Rita (Kiereck) Kurycki Avatar
    Mary Rita (Kiereck) Kurycki

    In high school when I hung out with Donna at her house, Rose showed me how she made her goulash … And I still make it that way. She was wonderful and I really enjoyed her support in those two years after my dad died. A wonderful woman and great mom.

    1. Donna (Dreher) Dwyer Avatar
      Donna (Dreher) Dwyer

      So wonderful to hear from you dear friend! I was sure you would remember Mom! Maybe we can get together in September when we come after the upcoming wedding.