Thomas Michael Green, lovingly known as Tom, passed away peacefully surrounded by his family on Thursday, January 8, 2026, just two days after celebrating his 86th birthday.
Born on January 6, 1940, Tom lived a life rooted in hard work, kindness, and deep devotion to family. He was predeceased by his beloved wife Barbara, his brother Steve, and his parents. Though his heart was forever shaped by those losses, Tom continued to give love freely and generously to everyone around him.
Tom is survived by his daughter Traci (Pete) and son Tommy (Sara); his cherished grandchildren Craig (Channi), Ellie (Kevin), Koby, Shea (Kimmie); his four adored great-grandchildren Rowan, Maverick, Ryan, and Westin; and many special relatives and friends. Family was everything to Tom, and he treasured every moment spent together—whether it was a simple visit, a shared laugh, or just being in the same room.
Tom began his career as a banker at Security Trust, but his true dream was to own his own business. In 1972, he proudly purchased Mayer Hardware, beginning a remarkable journey that would span more than four decades. His wife Barb left her nursing career to join him as the bookkeeper, and together they worked side by side for 45 years, building not just a successful business, but a community hub filled with warmth and connection.
One of Tom’s greatest joys was sitting at the paint counter, chatting with every customer who walked through the door. Before long, he knew their stories, their families, and their lives. Customers became friends, employees became family, and Mayer Hardware became a place where people felt welcome and known. Tom grew the business beyond anything he ever imagined, always grateful to work alongside family and employees he deeply valued.
Tom’s leadership extended beyond his store. He was actively involved in trade associations, serving as President of the New York State Retail Hardware Association, later becoming President of the National Retail Hardware Association, as well as serving on the Benjamin Moore Retail Advisory Board and the Servistar Board of Directors—roles he accepted with pride and humility.
Tom also proudly served his country as a Chief Warrant Officer (W3) in the Army Reserves and was a member of the Masonic Lodge and the Damascus Shrine, commitments that reflected his lifelong dedication to service.
In his later years, Tom was blessed with incredible caregivers who made it possible for him to remain at home, where he was happiest, especially with his sweet dog, Rosie, always by his side.
Tom was truly a friend to all. His warmth, humor, work ethic, and generous spirit will live on through the countless lives he touched and the family he loved so deeply.
Calling Hours Monday January 19, 2026 4-6PM at the Richard H. Keenan Funeral Home (Egypt Location) 7501 Pittsford Palmyra Road, Fairport. Private family burial in spring.
17 responses to “Green, Thomas Michael”
Tom, my friend and former landlord for 8-1/2 years, rest in peace.
Tom was one of the best people i have had the pleasure of knowing. With sincere condolences .
Well… what can I say about this guy! A gentle man who discovered how rewarding and successful a Business Opportunity, when presented, offered guidance and employment for many, many people. Tom was a businessman who truly appreciated his devoted Staff and very loyal Customers, as well. A truly Genuine guy, who presented himself professionally and unassuming. I think of him as a True Friend that transcended our business relationship,
What a wonderful and successful guy! His personal relationship with Mayer Paint & Hardware staff and loyal customers was truly exceptional. His daily demeanor was so friendly, his business skills exceptional, and attention to detail- beyond question. He was, for me, a true friend first and foremost…
Tom was a 50+ year Member of Fairport-Flower City Lodge, The Damascus Shrine, and the Valley of Rochester.
I had the pleasure of delivering Tom’s 50 year Masonic apron to him and he always reached out with an offer of help when he knew I had a project going on at the lodge.
He was a great guy and will be missed
My sympathies to the entire family. What a legacy in a Rochester landmark and beautiful family. May he rest in peace.
A great friend and wonderful neighbor…which meant we had personal delivery of whatever we needed from the store. Miss him and Barb…sending ❤️
Just found out about Seniors passing. He treated me wonderfully time and time again. Great man and father.
John and I were saddened to hear about Tom’s passing. Both professionally and personally, Your parents were always so welcoming and kind. We have and will hold onto many great memories of our times spent at the lake and their open house Christmas parties. We send our deepest condolences to the family and share in your grief. Sending our prayers for your comfort and peace. May he rest in peace and reunited with your mom. John and Tammy Joensen
I’m very saddened to hear this news. Tom was a great man, and I enjoyed seeing him on occasion. My sincere condolences to the entire family. May he rest in peace
As past Co-Chair of North Winton Village I am saddened to hear of the passing of Tom Green. He was very instrumental in making North Winton Village the neighborhood it is today. His outstanding business ,known as Mayer Hardware, which helps us all everyday along with his work with the community and other neighborhood businesses will never be forgotten.
Tom Was one of the best people I have known he will be missed by all. With Condolences to the Green Family. R I P
I remember Tom from Security Trust & the Water St Office.
My sincerest sympathy to his family who lost a good man who impacted many.
The Veterans Outreach Center extends our deepest sympathy in Thomas’ passing.
We acknowledge and are truly grateful for his service to our country.
Mr. Green was a true gentleman. He always welcomed me and my family. The last time I saw him was at his grandson, Shea,s wedding. He asked his aide to let him stay next to me at the wedding mass. We had a nice chat. I am Sara’s aunt. Mr. Green will be missed by so many. My family and I were always welcomed by him.
I was devastated at hearing the loss of senior. I have known him for over 20 years and have always felt like family when interacting with him. He always had a joke and a great sense of humor which is especially hard in the world today. He has left a legacy in Mayer hardware that the community has known to love and remains loyal to. He is sadly missed, but will never be forgotten. 😇
Tom was a great person. We had known him since the early 80’s. We started renovating houses. We would need something we would always go to Mayer Hardware. He always gave great advice on what to do, what you need, and they always had it. He was a very caring person and genuinely interested in you. Tom will be greatly missed by those that knew him. We pray for strength for his family during this sad time.