Jacalyn K. James

August 28th, 2024

We are all given the miracle of life. A precious, fleeting gift we must return. Jackie left us peacefully, with Bob at her side, in the early morning hours of August 28th. A joyous life well lived, her gift returned much too soon.

Raised on the family farm in Pavilion, NY, daughter of Howard and Ethel Kingsley. Jackie’s spirit is carried on in siblings Larry (Karen E), Karen A., Gary, Jerry (Monica), and David (Valerie) Kingsley. Also survived by much loved nieces and nephews: Eric, Nicole, Ashley, Marissa, Emily, and Lauren Kingsley, Corinne (Christian) Isaac, upcoming great niece baby Adyson Eckie Isaac, Kaleigh (Will) Tapp, great nephew baby Lincoln Tapp and many cousins.

Jackie settled in Fairport after graduation from Alfred State College, where she met life-long friend Lynne Manuel. Together they forged precious memories through countless adventures including her favorite annual Great Sacandaga Lake vacation with the “Lake Girls” – Lynn, Colleen, Caroline, Sharon, Mary, Yvonne and Jessica. 

Always the selfless mentor, Jackie was quick to help, teach and guide others throughout a long career that included a St. John Fisher degree and leadership positions at Kodak, Johnson & Johnson and Ortho-Clinical Diagnostics, retiring after 42 years of tireless, dedicated service.

Remember Jackie’s genuine smile, gentle warmth, easy nature, unconditional love for family and friends. Cherish the memory of her sincere friendship, given without question. Celebrate together her beautiful life and journey that touched, and influenced, the lives of so many.

Each of us connected to every person we meet – Jackie will be missed beyond imagination.

Memorial donations to American Cancer Society or your favorite charity.
No calling hours or services.

Mike Reid (PSU Alum) – “Constant Companion”

We are born into this world

All of us alone

So alone we must leave

But while we’re here

We are given one another

To have and hold faithfully

Constantly

There for me

Jac – Forever My Constant Companion


Comments

14 responses to “James, Jacalyn K.”

  1. Nancy Green Avatar
    Nancy Green

    Jackie was a kind-hearted soul who always had a smile on her face. She will be missed.

  2. Patti Phalen Avatar
    Patti Phalen

    Very sad to read this!! Haven’t seen Jackie recently.. but so many fun times .. I can hear her laughter.
    Bob and Karen … please know I’m thinking of you and sending hugs.

  3. Sandra Whalen Avatar
    Sandra Whalen

    Thank you, Bob. Nicely done.

  4. Phil Race Avatar
    Phil Race

    A wonderful joyous woman she was.Saddened to hear that God was ready for her so soon. But Jackie will not be forgotten. God Bless all those who’s lives she touched.

  5. Dale Ryan Avatar
    Dale Ryan

    Jackie
    Her gentle calm demeanor I will never forget. She was always there when you needed guidance and direction.

  6. Lancye & Joe Douglas Avatar
    Lancye & Joe Douglas

    This is a beautiful tribute Bob. We have lost a beautiful, intelligent, gentle soul who was always willing to mentor & offer advice. Jackie will be missed by many. May many wonderful memories bring you comfort….now & in the days ahead.

  7. Merrit and Teny Jacobs Avatar
    Merrit and Teny Jacobs

    We are shocked and saddened to hear about Jackie’s passing. We remember her as a charming, lovely, friendly woman with great intelligence and compassion. May her memory forever be a blessing to all whose lives she touched.

  8. Irene Glass Avatar
    Irene Glass

    We are saddened to hear of the passing of Jackie. I knew Jackie from her time at Alfred State College and Ted knew her for many years at Kodak, J&J and Ortho.
    Such a sweet person, she will be sadly missed.
    Sincerely,
    Ted and Irene Glass
    Cocoa, FL

  9. Mark Cartwright Avatar
    Mark Cartwright

    I will miss her, a lot of good times, So sorry for your loss BoB, 😔✌️

  10. Jill Finan Avatar
    Jill Finan

    Jackie was a role model for me at Ortho. We could always count on her to be the voice of reason in sometimes chaotic situations. My condolences go,to her family and those who loved her and admired her as I did.

  11. Brad Spring Avatar
    Brad Spring

    I am so sorry to hear this news. My heart is with you Bob. It has been over 25 years since I saw her, but I will always remember her kindness and words of encouragement. Of course I will fondly remember that Hobart vs Penn State lacrosse game in Geneva and I still have those Penn St golf balls she gave as a going away gift. Fond memories indeed.

  12. Mary Neidert Avatar
    Mary Neidert

    Oh this hurts. I absolutely adored Jackie as a co-worker, fellow Alfred Alum, and one I could always count on for a big smile and lively conversation in and outside of work. She was truly one of a kind.
    This photo of Jackie is absolutely stunning as it captures her essence perfectly.
    My deepest condolences to you Bob. I pray you will feel God’s peace in the memories.

  13. Maureen Schreiber Avatar
    Maureen Schreiber

    So sorry. I remember Jackie well. She was always enthusiastic and helpful. May her family find comfort in remembering happy times together.

  14. Jackie was a wonderful colleague and friend at Ortho. She always had a smile and sincere warmth for everyone she worked with. She was a calm place in the storm that was Ortho with a patient ear and a commitment to success for everyone.

    The world will miss her graceful spirit as will I. God bless and keep you always my friend. You will be missed by many.