Miller, Brian R.

Brian R. Miller passed away suddenly in his home on Feb 23, 2023 survived by his Wife Sandra (Krisher) Miller, and children Ben, Anthony, Allyssa, and Ashley. Predeceased by his Daughter Samantha (Sam).

To those fortunate enough to know Brian, he was many things to many people, both personally and professionally.

Above all he was a husband and father. He and his Wife Sandra had many passions, but it was their love of life and service that brought them the most joy. Whether a simple trip for coffee, or a tour around the country side, adventure drove them. Brian loved Sandra with all his heart, and that was a large heart. They had many plans together yet to accomplish while their journey was cut short, their work and love will live on. 

To those who knew him, he was buried in his work. Brian truly worked right up until his last days. Buried however, carries a negative connotation. To anyone who knew Brian, was to know that he loved what he did, and only worked on what he loved. That thing, no matter what it looked like, was helping others. Whether through his work, or through his many talents. He was a celebrated co-worker and team leader. He was proud of what he was a part of, and we all somehow knew the world was better for it.

What Brian was immersed in was not work at all, it was joy. No matter what he did, it was not only important that it mattered to him, but had an impact on others. This was especially true in the help he gave to others. The only thing that Brian was more skilled at than math and science, was helping others and it was something that inspired him daily. His mind and skillset were invaluable to anyone who needed him, and he was always willing to help.

The one thing Brian loved more than creation was his creation, his children. If there was one thing he loved like nothing else it was his daughter Sam, and son Ben. Losing Sam was a heartbreak he couldn’t endure. It was a problem he couldn’t solve with spreadsheets and math, and he carried that pain with him right till the end. But even during all of that pain he would joyfully share stories and updates of them both.

Brian had a gift of making anyone feel loved and welcome, he was always interested in a story, he always had help to give, he had a smile that the world will miss indefinitely. Brian was a man who had the fortune of congruence, the man he set out to be and the man he was to others were the same.

Brian’s love for animals especially dogs was telling of his ethereal view of the world. Brian loved all dogs, and they too loved him. He is survived my many “Doggy-Grandbabies” who will miss his treats dearly. It was his love of animals that demonstrated his inner child. Brian sought joy and laughter like no other, and animals always brought him this joy.

Brian leaves us with a message as only Brian would do. A reminder hidden in his legacy that no matter how much you love what you do, don’t forget to make time for you, it can come without warning, leave the world better than you found it. Of that he undoubtedly has. His legacy will live on in his contributions, his family, his friends, and his integrity.

Calling Hours Thursday March 2, 2023 4-6PM at the Richard H. Keenan Funeral Home (Egypt Location) 7501 Pittsford Palmyra Road, Fairport.