Schaefer, Richard John

June 19, 1928-February 7, 2021

Dick passed away on February 7, 2021 at 92 years old. He was
predeceased by his eldest daughter, Mary Sue, and his great grandson, Jackson.

He is survived by his wife of 67 years Elsie “Babe” Schaefer.
And his children Sally Radell (Ted Ruedin), Robert Schaefer (Colleen), Jack Schaefer
(Robyn), Anne Meath (Michael), and Jeannie Caia (Mauro). Grandchildren Amanda
Wlosinski (Steve), Kathryn Paul (Cameron), Lindsay Eksten (Mark), Bobby
Schaefer, Austin Schaefer, Ian Schaefer, Dana Meath, Kathleen Meath, Erin
Meath, Richard Caia, and Josephina Caia. (Ambien) Great grandchildren Patrick Eksten,
Hunter & Kayden Wlosinski, and Alexander and Tyler Paul.

Dick was a loving father and grandfather, and declared each
of his 6 children, 11 grandchildren, and 6 great grandchildren his “favorite.” There
was never a doubt about the important place we each had in his big heart. We
will dearly miss his wisdom, wit, and always knowing the right thing to say.
And for knowing when it was just time to listen.

He had an amazing ability to attract wonderful people into
his life and was blessed with many friends and extended family with whom he
shared love, loyalty and laughs through the years. Thank you all for being such
a big part of his 92 years.

In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the School
of the Holy Childhood.

Due to the limitations of Covid-19, a funeral mass was
previously held at the convenience of the family.


Comments

19 responses to “Schaefer, Richard John”

  1. Don & Carol Newton Avatar
    Don & Carol Newton

    Babe & Family, we are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thought & prayers. Carol & Don Newton

  2. Thank you Richard for over 40 years of close friendship and countless memories! Golf, gin rummy “going out of business sales” and being like a second dad to me! You will live on in my memories. Sincerely David

  3. Wendy Baker Avatar
    Wendy Baker

    We send our heartfelt condolences to all of Mr. Schaefer’s family. It has been a blessing and a pleasure to have known him through his daughter and my best friend for almost 35 years. As I told Jeannie, he was one in a million and a truly class-act man. I will always remember him fondly.

  4. Vina M Platania Avatar
    Vina M Platania

    Mrs. Schaefer, Sally, Bobby,Jack, Annie, and Jeanne. I am so verry sorry for your family’s loss. I was blessed to have grown up three doors down because it meant spending a lot of time with all of you. Your dad’s personality was as big as his heart. He was funny, kindhearted and he loved you all so much. It took him a little while to get used to the little Italian girl down the street but he always made me feel welcome. He will always have a special place in my heart.

  5. Very sorry for the loss of your father, I remember many good times at the house.

  6. Elaine M Becker Avatar
    Elaine M Becker

    Dear Babe–it has been a while but know that I will pray for comfort for you and your family. We had many laughs together over the years. Hope fond memories will lessen the grief—Love Elaine Becker (Richard Becker)

  7. Kevin Murphy Avatar
    Kevin Murphy

    Dear Babe and all the Schaefer family my condolences. Dick and you all are such wonderful loving people. I have such happy memories of times in Booneville, NY. God Bless Dick !

  8. Ken and Linda Graci Avatar
    Ken and Linda Graci

    To the Schaefer Family.
    Linda and I want to offer our deepest condolences. We will miss Dick very much.

  9. Patrick Christiano Avatar
    Patrick Christiano

    Babe and family, I just heard about Dick and I am very sorry for your great loss. Dick was a great man and I have many great memories of his sense of humor and brilliance. My one regret is I don’t think I ever was able to beat him in scrabble. I hope you are all well.

  10. Richard Gagnier MD Avatar
    Richard Gagnier MD

    So sir sorry to hear about Dick’s passing. Caroline and I are filled with many years of beautiful memories. It was always a joy to see Dick in the office along with Babe. You will all be in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.. May God bless you all. Dr. Richard and Caroline Gagnier

  11. phil Spalma Avatar
    phil Spalma

    Learned so much from Dick,in the retail business never new Anyone with so much savvy and compassion in his work and life

  12. phil Spalma Avatar
    phil Spalma

    Learned a lot

    Learn so much from dick in the retail business great compassion for his work and his family

  13. Terry Smith Avatar
    Terry Smith

    He was my mentor I loved Dick and Babe his wife They were soo much of my life these 90 years. My love and prayers for family.

  14. Kris Zimmerman Avatar
    Kris Zimmerman

    Babe and family; we are sorry to hear about Dick. Our deepest condolences to all of you. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Kris and Paul Zimmerman.

  15. Patty and Gordon Rask Avatar
    Patty and Gordon Rask

    Dear Jack, Robyn and Ian, just read about your Dad, we send our heartfelt sympathies to you and your family. God Bless all of you during this time of mourning.

  16. Nellie Rosenberg Avatar
    Nellie Rosenberg

    Dear Schaefer Family
    I’m thinking of you all and remembering the many years our families worked and played together
    Sharing great times and supporting each other through the losses
    And so again

  17. Jim and Mary Kay Robinson Avatar
    Jim and Mary Kay Robinson

    Our sympathy to Babe and family! Heaven has a spot waiting fo him! God bless you all!

  18. Patti and Bobby Hall Avatar
    Patti and Bobby Hall

    So sorry to lose “Papa” Dick. What a wonderful and compassionate man! Our sympathies to Babe and to all who surrounded him.

  19. LeAnna Meyers Avatar
    LeAnna Meyers

    Aunt Babe, we are all so very sorry for your loss. May God send you an army of Angels to Heal your heart and my you find peace. We love you dearly.
    Bruce, LeAnna and CJ.