Barbara Ann “Barbie” Steblen (née Ripson), age 63, passed away peacefully on November 11, 2025, in Rochester, New York, the city where she was born and spent most of her life.
Born on April 4, 1962, in Rochester, Barbara was the daughter of Philip and Helen Ripson. She grew up surrounded by a close-knit family that helped shape her warm and caring nature. Throughout her life, Barbara remained deeply connected to her roots and community as well as friends and family.
Barbara began her professional journey working as a bank teller and customer service representative. Her dedication to helping others and her friendly demeanor made her a valued presence in the workplace. After several years in banking, she embraced the role of full-time mother to raise her three sons—Christopher, Philip, and Daniel—whom she cherished deeply. Later in life, Barbara found great fulfillment teaching preschool. She took pride in nurturing young minds and found joy in making a positive impact on the lives of children.
Barbara’s love for her family was at the heart of everything she did. She shared a devoted marriage with her husband Craig and took immense pride in being a mother. Her home was always filled with warmth, laughter, and the comforting aroma of home-cooked meals. Cooking for loved ones was one of Barbara’s greatest joys; she delighted in preparing meals that brought people together.
In addition to her family life and career, Barbara had many passions that brought her happiness. She enjoyed playing Bingo and could often be found cheering on Buffalo Bills football games or watching NLL Lacrosse matches with enthusiasm. A visit to the casino floor was always a welcome adventure for her—an opportunity to enjoy herself and share laughs with friends or family.
Barbara is lovingly remembered by her husband Craig; sons Christopher (Elektra), Philip, and Daniel (Joelle); sister Valerie (Ed) Bolger; brother Jon (Whitney) Ripson, her beloved grandaughter Fiona, and several nieces, nephews and cousins as well. Barbara’s memory will also be cherished by her close friends, Patty Scott, RoseAnn Bruner and Gail Gligora. She was predeceased by her parents Philip and Helen Ripson, as well as her brother Philip and sister Patricia.
Those who knew Barbara will remember her as a gentle soul with a kind word for everyone. Her legacy is one of compassion, generosity, and unwavering love for those around her.
May Barbara’s memory bring comfort to all who knew and loved her. A Calling Hours will be held on November 19, 2025, from 04:00 PM to 06:00 PM at the Richard H Keenan Funeral Home (Egypt Location) 7501 Pittsford-Palmyra Rd, Fairport.
3 responses to “Steblen, Barbara Ann”
Dear Craig,
Thinking of you and your family.
My deepest sympathy.
Priscilla & Ken
Dear Craig, Christopher, PJ, Daniel, and Fiona,
We are sad to hear of Barb’s passing. A mother’s love is forever. Wishing you all the comfort of her love and the beautiful memories you all share.
Dear Craig, Dan and family, We are saddened to hear of Barb’s death. We had the honor and joy of getting to know the Steblen family during many hours in various bowling centers in Rochester and other major cities in the US. Barb would always greet us with her bright smile and a welcoming hello. Barb and Craig were there to support Dan and all the other players on the Fairport bowling team. We heard many stories about PJ and Chris and Elektra from a very proud Mother. When the kids were done bowling we saw Barb and Craig walk out to the van hand in hand discusiing where next? home, dinner out or maybe the casino. We had some grand times together. God speed Barb.
Love Warren, Shirley and Laura Branch.