Colling-Bello, Jaime A.

Charismatic, friendly, dedicated, beautiful, bright and the best mother… when you think of Jaime Colling-Bello, those are just a few of the words that come to mind. She lit up every room she entered, and her loving personality shone onto everyone who knew her.

Unfortunately, the world lost one of its brightest lights on April 12, 2021, when Jaime unexpectedly passed away. She is survived by her ex-husband Tom Bello, and their two children, Samantha and Thomas; parents Brian and Sharon; sister Tracy; brother Brian (KC “Snoop”); nephews Nathan, Brandon and William; niece Kaylee; long-time partner, Justin Lucci; beloved uncle Bobby; and many other family members and friends.

Born on September 1, 1976, Jaime was a happy, bubbly and loving child to everyone she met. She is remembered as being “so cute, you just had to hug her.” She played as a softball catcher for Fairport High School, where she graduated in 1995, and at SUNY Oneonta.

Jaime began her career at Wegmans in 1992 in the Bakery department. On her first day on the job, Tracy told her, “I’m not your sister here. We’re coworkers. Don’t embarrass me.” At the time of her passing, Jaime was a Store Manager at Ocean New Jersey. She was a dedicated, hard-working employee who was beloved by her colleagues and friends.

Jaime’s most cherished role was being a mother. Samantha and Thomas were the center of her world, and everything she did was for them.

In her free time, Jaime loved to go to Pearl Jam concerts with her dad, Brian and KC. The concerts took them to places like Florida, Detroit, New York City and Italy. She also enjoyed the family’s yearly vacations to Ocean City, New Jersey. She had a very close relationship with both of her parents. Her mom was one of her best friends, and she and her dad enjoyed stargazing together at night.

Jaime’s biggest joy was to help others before herself. Her selfless, loving, kind and open spirit will live on in her children, her family members and her friends. She will be missed by everyone who knew her.

Calling hours are Monday, April 19, from 3 p.m. to 6 p.m. at Richard H. Keenan Funeral Home at 7501 Pittsford-Palmyra Road in Fairport. A private service will be held at the convenience of the family.

In lieu of flowers, Jaime’s family requests donations to the American Diabetes Association.


Comments

77 responses to “Colling-Bello, Jaime A.”

  1. Love you so very much! Forever in my heart Jaime !

  2. What a beautiful person inside and out! When I thought of you, it was never as a boss, but of a sister! You will forever be in my thoughts!

  3. With Love Catherine cherry hill store. Avatar
    With Love Catherine cherry hill store.

    Ms. Jaime you will be truly missed at the cherry hill store, you were part of the OG’s and you know I love the OG’s you were an awesome Manager since day one. So it saddens me that you are no longer with us. I am so happy I got to see you and laugh with you one last time. I was so happy you were around again. My condolences to the family. I will keep you all close to my heart during this hard time.

  4. Ed Scartocci Avatar
    Ed Scartocci

    My heart was broken when I heard this terrible news. Jaime was my manager at Wegmans Princeton many years ago. I always had so much admiration and respect for her. She was an amazing manager, mentor and co worker but more importantly an amazing human being. She was so helpful to me while I was working full time and going to school. Unfortunately,I haven’t seen her in many years but I often thought of her. I would like to offer my deepest sympathies to her family, what a beautiful soul the world has lost. I will always remember her fondly.

  5. Meegan Colling Avatar
    Meegan Colling

    Not only loved by Uncle Bobby..her aunt Meg Colling,Linda Combs. Her other uncles, Kerry, Pat, Mike,Tom, and Kevin Colling

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      Meegan Colling

      And her 95 year old great grandmother Joan Colling

  6. Meegan Colling Avatar
    Meegan Colling

    And her 95 year old grandmother Joan Colling

  7. Christina Huddleston Avatar
    Christina Huddleston

    I am still in shock, such a wonderful soul taken too soon, she is in God’s hands and I will always remember her chubby cheek joke when I was little. Miss you and love you cousin. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

  8. Chris Trabold Avatar
    Chris Trabold

    Brian and family, I was heartbroken to learn of Jaime’s passing, a tremendous loss. I met her in person last year and she was a sweetheart, just wonderful to talk to. I feel blessed to have met her. You will all be in my thoughts and prayers during the difficult days ahead.

  9. Latisha Hooks-Morales Avatar
    Latisha Hooks-Morales

    Devastated to hear of this ?. Jaime and I worked together for some time and if you had the pleasure to work with her, you know the sunshine and light she was.
    My heart goes out to the kids and the family. May she rest in peace. She still had so much life and love to give. May her memory be a blessing to all ❤

  10. Uncle Rory Avatar
    Uncle Rory

    I’ll miss you more than ever young lady

  11. Tom Bello Avatar
    Tom Bello

    You were the love of my life! Such a special woman. You were always such a ray of sunshine, you can light up a room when you entered one! Thomas & Samantha are so blessed to have a mother like you. You showed them love and I know they will miss your big hugs. Lil Bunky & Sqishy as you called them will always remember all the cherished times. Rest assured we will all be together again and until that day comes you will be on our minds and in our hearts. Love ya & miss you dearly my Jaimer !!

  12. Linda M. Combs (Colling) Avatar
    Linda M. Combs (Colling)

    Sweet Jamie, you will be missed by everyone who ever got to know you and was touched by your wonderful personality and love. I will always remember you squezzing your little face together and saying “my mommas chubby, my daddys chubbing and I’m chubby”! You were simply adorable!! I love you so!! You are loved and missed by your Aunts and Uncles : Kevin & Linda, Linda & John, Bobby, Tom, Rory, Michael & Carolann, Mag, Patrick & Kerry and the long list of Cousins. We love you Forever and will see you again!! God Bless and Keep you in his Loving arms.

  13. Christine Avatar
    Christine

    Jamie, you will be missed! I’m so glad I had the chance to work with you!!!

  14. Tina Irving Avatar
    Tina Irving

    So so sad to hear this heartbreaking news! I was always so in awe of Jamie and how she handled herself with grace in all the many hats she wore!! Beautiful inside and out! Sending strength to all…

  15. Amanda Cruz (Duncan) Avatar
    Amanda Cruz (Duncan)

    Jaime, this truly took my breath away. Rest in eternal peace, my friend. Until we meet again. ❤️ Mandy

  16. Melissa Blandford Avatar
    Melissa Blandford

    My family and I were heartbroken to hear of Jaime’s passing. She was part of our family growing up. My thoughts and prayers are with her family and her beautiful children during this time. Rest easy, my old friend. ❤️

  17. Lida Korolenko Avatar
    Lida Korolenko

    One of God special people , I had the great opportunity to work with her .Broke my heart. Please know you will not be forgotten your spirit will live on. RIP sweet girl. Liddie Princeton Wegmans.

  18. Carly Enriquez Avatar
    Carly Enriquez

    You will be missed especially at Ocean 09. Thank you again for helping me this time last year ❤️

  19. Colleen Avatar
    Colleen

    This news made me so sad. Jaime is a part of all my high school softball memories. The best catcher a pitcher could have! Not only could she stop every ball but when games got tough she knew when I needed her to come out to the mound and she would always make me laugh. Sending thoughts and prayers to her family.

  20. Kelly Myers Avatar
    Kelly Myers

    Brian, Tracy, and family, I’m so sorry for your loss. Brian I remember how proud you were when you would tell me about her softball games, your face would light up! I can’t imagine what you all are going through. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

  21. Melissa Tesoro Avatar
    Melissa Tesoro

    I was so saddened to hear this shocking news. My heart goes out to Jaime’s family & friends. Jaime and I met through our girls & instantly became friends. Angelina sends her thoughts & prayers to Sam. We will keep Jaime in our hearts forever. So so sorry!

  22. Vanessa Pruden Avatar
    Vanessa Pruden

    Oh, Jamie…..what a gut-punch when I heard….I’ll always remember how you got a kick out of Nichole and I twinning for the family holiday visit. You were always so gracious to me; even when you didn’t have to be. ( This MOUTH?) I’ll always regret that I didn’t get to hug you when I saw you again after years apart. I didn’t realize that I had grown to love you, but I know it NOW. Gonna miss you.

  23. Vanessa Pruden Avatar
    Vanessa Pruden

    Sending love,prayers, and comforting thoughts to Tom,Samantha and Thomas.

  24. Elaine Cherry hill Store Avatar
    Elaine Cherry hill Store

    My condolences to the family. I will keep you all close to my heart during this hard time Sending love,prayers
    Jamie, you will be missed! I’m so glad I had the chance to work with you.

  25. Kathy Seifert Avatar
    Kathy Seifert

    Rest in peace Jamie. God Bless

  26. Sue and Larry Avatar
    Sue and Larry

    We were so blessed to have you as a neighbor! We loved you like a daughter.
    You will be in our hearts forever!

  27. Cynthia Cole Avatar
    Cynthia Cole

    Will never, EVER forget those beautiful twinkling eyes! And that SMILE! Rest my pretty friend?

  28. Christine Avatar
    Christine

    Jaime, you will be missed.? It was a pleasure working with you. Sending my thoughts and prayers to her family and friends.

  29. Kevin Martin Avatar
    Kevin Martin

    The news of Jamie’s passing broke my heart. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family and friends. Jamie was many things to many people. She was one of the best mentors and friend that a person could have . We have lost an amazing human being, but heaven gained an extraordinary angel. You will be missed but never forgotten!

  30. Vic Borsellino Avatar
    Vic Borsellino

    Everyone at Ocean Wegmans is heartbroken Jaime was one of the nicest people you could ever meet and a wonderful boss loved by everyone who worked with her

  31. Jaime was our store manager in Ocean. So caring and attentive to listen to how your week was or just anything you wanted to talk about, you will be missed. Sending prayers and strength to your family to get thru this difficult time.

  32. Denise Houston Avatar
    Denise Houston

    Jaime , you were such a sweet women and you will be missed. Sending prayers of peace and comfort to her family and friends.

  33. Courtney Z Avatar
    Courtney Z

    So sorry to hear of Jamie’s passing. Such a beautiful light inside and out. May her family be comforted during this difficult time, and may her spirit live on in her children.

  34. Sending love to the whole family. Will always remember rocking out in the kitchen making cookies and the softball days. ❤

  35. Andrea P Avatar
    Andrea P

    So sorry to hear of Jaime’s passing. We went to high school together and I have fond memories of her sweet personality. May you look down upon your legacies, your children, and guide them from above. Rest In Peace, my friend.

  36. Carolyn Dougherty Avatar
    Carolyn Dougherty

    Your beautiful spirit touched everyone you came in contact with Jamie. . you will always be in our thoughts and our hearts.

  37. Christine (Yorio) Hoffman Avatar
    Christine (Yorio) Hoffman

    I’m saddened to hear of Jaime’s passing. We went to school together in Fairport and spent a lot of time on the diamonds together. She had a fantastic energy and will always be part of my softball memories. Thoughts and prayers for her children and family at this difficult time.

    1. Violet Richardson Avatar
      Violet Richardson

      You were always a sweet beautiful person you will be missed .. sending love and prayers to her kids & family ?

  38. Phoebbie D. Bryant- Blackwell Avatar
    Phoebbie D. Bryant- Blackwell

    I remember your smile and a clamness about you. Always seemed to have control, even when we knew things were hectic. Keeping your babies and family in prayer. Rest baby girl, rest now in peace?

  39. Larry Henry Jr Avatar
    Larry Henry Jr

    Jaime was always a sweet person to talk too and always made an effort to see how you were doing. We had many fun chats and times during my career at Wegmans Cherry Hill. Rest In Peace.

    1. Vanessa Avatar
      Vanessa

      Larry….remember YOU and your big,enthusiastic ? You were always willing to assist when needed; know that you’re missed at CH.

  40. Dave Fagner Avatar
    Dave Fagner

    I am heartbroken to hear of the passing of Jamie. I have so many memories of young Jamie working in the bakery department at Perinton.
    I was so proud of her and her WEGMANS career. I was blessed to have had
    the opportunity to work with so many Colling family members. My heart and prayers go out to each and everyone of you at this difficult time.

  41. jane Wiatr Avatar
    jane Wiatr

    Jaime was the spark of life at Wegmans, and surely the spark of life for all who came in contact with her. I will miss her smiling face.

    I am a customer at Wegman’s Ocean Twp. and every Saturday morning I would look forward to my chats with Jaime during my shopping trip. Jaime always had a kind and friendly word for me, no matter how busy she was at work. She once told me she was looking forward to going “away” with her kids for Christmas, to her parents home to spend the holidays. Her family was her life and even during our brief encounters I realized what a great parent and person she was. She left such an impression.

  42. Natalie Gall Avatar
    Natalie Gall

    Words fail to describe the tremendous loss we feel as a result of your passing. My brother was lucky to have met you and your children are so special to us. We will always watch over them and preserve your memory in their hearts and minds. They will always be reminded of what a caring, beautiful, and special person you were. I know you will always watch over them and guide Tommy, Sam and Thomas from above. Rest in Peace Sweet Jaime.
    “I know I was born and I know that I’ll die
    The in-between is mine
    I AM MINE” –Eddie Vedder

    Until we meet again Natalie, Tom, Alexandra and Olivia

  43. Mary Rotondi Avatar
    Mary Rotondi

    There are no words to express the profound grief we feel with Jaime’s sudden passing. We were proud
    to welcome her into our family and our pride in her success at Wegman’s and in her deep love for her
    children were boundless.

    Our prayers go out to her devoted parents, and loving brother, sister and extended family in the
    unimaginable loss they have suffered.
    Thank you, Jaime, for the gift of our grandchildren, Samantha and Thomas, and the memories you
    inspired that, in time, we pray will transcend our deep sadness. Your kind and generous heart, your
    sincerity and integrity and love of family are a tribute to the wonderful woman you were. You left an
    indelible mark on all who were fortunate to know you. We vow to continue to instill those same values
    in your children and to celebrate your life and memory with them while you guide them from above.
    May you rest in peace in the arms of Our Lord.
    Mary and Jack

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      Megan Gunio

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  44. Jim Wilgus Avatar
    Jim Wilgus

    You always knew where you stood with Jaime as a supervisor, and she was simply the best. I will miss her tremendously.

  45. Cyndie Van Bavel Avatar
    Cyndie Van Bavel

    Your smile always made my day. Genuine, kind, caring….you made a difference in so many lives. Rest easy Jaime, I will always remember you for being a beautiful persin, inside and out.

  46. Jamie you were the best! You did so much for me and my family. Your smile would light up a room. You were so bright. Always loved speaking about your children. Ocean store will never be the same without you. I pray for your children. As I know you will look down on them. You will truly be missed Jamie. ❤️

  47. Cori Barber (Gubiotti) Avatar
    Cori Barber (Gubiotti)

    Jaime I have so many sweet memories of you and am so very sad to hear that you are no longer with us. You were always such a sweet and beautiful soul. ❤️ Cori

  48. joseph j minardo Avatar
    joseph j minardo

    I REMEMBER YOU YEARS AGO WITH OUR FAMILY PLAYING VOLLEYBALL AND SO MANY OTHER MEMORIES OF YOUR BEAUTY TOO, YOU WILL BE MISSED!

  49. Nicky Mason-Wardell Avatar
    Nicky Mason-Wardell

    I am deeply saddened to learn of Jamie’s passing. I have many fond memories from our days playing softball together growing up. Rest In Peace, Jamie, and my sincere condolences to all of her loved ones.

  50. Amanda LaGrutta Avatar
    Amanda LaGrutta

    I am absolutely heartbroken to hear that Heaven called for another angel. I loved working for you in Ocean. Thank you for all you did for me and my family. May your family remember all the happy and fun times together. God Bless.

  51. I worked with Jamie in Cherry Hill, She was the best. MY heart goes out for her family and friends .

  52. Dawn and Bruce Ortlip Avatar
    Dawn and Bruce Ortlip

    Our hearts are heavy to hear of this news. We both worked for Jaimie at Wegmans. Our prayers go out to all of you!.Heaven gained an Angel!
    Rest In Peace Jaimie!

  53. Joan Marie Higgins Avatar
    Joan Marie Higgins

    Jamie…your light was dimmed too soon…you were such a special gift to us at the Ocean store…our hearts are broken. I will never forget your hugs and your genuine kindness. You got me through some rough times by just having that shoulder to cry on. You will always have a special place in my heart. Its so hard to wrap my brain around sucb a tremendous loss. Fly high our angel…

  54. Becky and Jerry DelGudico Avatar
    Becky and Jerry DelGudico

    Brian, Sharon and family so sorry for your loss…..

  55. Robert K. Colling Avatar
    Robert K. Colling

    BOWLING BALL your new adventure is just begining. You have a brand new body without defects, no pain, no more sorrow, or heart aches no more disease and all eternity to have endless adventures with Tar, Bruce. Both your grandpas, your grandmother Hicks. The love and tenderness you’ve spread around on earth will be spread throughout all creation. God bless you Jaime.

  56. David Culbert and Deana Earland Perez Avatar
    David Culbert and Deana Earland Perez

    Jaime….you were taken from us far too soon but taken to a far better place for sure. A place of pure joy, immediate healing, and unfathomable peace. While our hearts have been so heavy the past week with sadness that you are no longer with us, we also have enjoyed remembering our special times with you at Wegmans. Stories about you and David as good friends (and Rochesterians) for 20 years growing the division in NJ, and you welcoming me with open arms as my first employee representative when I joined the company. Your bright light shines within your beautiful children, and we have been praying for healing comfort to be sent their way. May God bless your Family, your Children, and you Jaime. You now have your Halo Sweet Angel.

  57. Lis and Andrew DuHaime Avatar
    Lis and Andrew DuHaime

    We are so sorry to hear about Jaime’s passing. We pray to give you strength to get through this. May Jaime Rest In Peace.

  58. Shocking and deeply saddened by the loss of Jamie. One of the best bosses I have ever had. My deepest condolences to all that have been touched by this loss. RIP Jamie, you will be missed.

  59. Jennifer Blair Avatar
    Jennifer Blair

    Please accept my deepest sympathies on Jamie’s passing. I will fondly remember Jamie because she always stopped to speak to me and say good morning at the Ocean Township Wegmans. Jamie would always call me by name (even if I wasn’t wearing my name tag.) Thank you for your kindness, Jamie – I will always remember you for that! Sending positive thoughts to the family during this time.

  60. Daniel mcguiness Avatar
    Daniel mcguiness

    Jay lo, I will truly miss you and I will always remember the great times I had with you and tommy! It was so nice that you were always interested in how I was doing and how my kids are doing, whenever I bumped into you! I always have fond memories of you and will miss you!

  61. Trent O'Drain Avatar
    Trent O’Drain

    It is hard to find words to express the sadness to hear the news of Jaime’s passing. She is one in a million, and we will all miss the warmth, energy, caring and passion that she brought every day, to all those around her. I had the pleasure of knowing and working with Jaime the past 18 years, and will miss her terribly. We could always count on her wit and sense of humor, perspective and honesty in any situation. I wish to her family and friends, the ability to find peace in the many fond and happy memories. Thoughts and prayers especially to her family, Tommy, Samantha and Thomas. May she rest In peace.

  62. Carolyn Avatar
    Carolyn

    Our hearts are broken here in the Princeton Wegmans. . So So many great memories of Jamie .Jamie truly cared for all the employees and lived our Values everyday . Will miss her great stories of Samantha and Thomas I hope they will always know how much she loved them .and what a proud Mama she was .

  63. Chris Ruper Avatar
    Chris Ruper

    I still can’t believe this is real. I saw Jaime on Thursday and by Monday I received a call that she was gone. I knew Jaime for a long time; she was my boss, mentor, colleague and friend. The sadness that I feel knowing she is gone is unexplainable. I can’t stop thinking about her kids and family and what they’re going through and feeling right now. My condolences go to her loved ones. I’ll miss you, Jaime!

  64. Nicky (Drury) Howsare Avatar
    Nicky (Drury) Howsare

    So heartbreaking , my prayers are with you all as you find a way to navigate through the heartache. We had so much fun the many many years on the field , her and I had a special connection on and off the field , but we were a duel to not get in a pickle with that’s for sure . The Shenanigans we got our selfs into make me laugh , smile and go omg we really did that . Forever will be loved and missed

  65. De Haven Rogers Avatar
    De Haven Rogers

    After hearing the news of your sudden transition. I was in total shock and disbelief. With your cheerful charisma and caring attitude with a sense of urgency, I will treasure our time collaborating. To my former direct supervisor and colleague, Jamie you will be forever missed at your home store located in Princeton Wegmans. I appreciate our time and you were one of the first to hire me for a leadership/management position and for that, I thank you for believing and encouraging me. To her family and friends, my condolences are with you during this difficult time. The loss of Jamie is felt by many she worked with. May the memories of her wonderful personality and many contributions be celebrated by all. Farewell Jamie. 

  66. Devastating news, especially since we just reconnected after so many years. You were always a sweet and caring person Jaim lots of great memories together. I know you were greeted at the gates with a big hug from Cody….until we meet again xoxo

  67. Jessica Costner (Gelb) Avatar
    Jessica Costner (Gelb)

    I am sadden about Jamie’s passing. I’ve enjoyed playing ball with her through the Little League and Fairport High school. She has a beautiful contagious smile that easily lifts everyone’s spirits up! My HEART goes out to Jamie’s family. ??

  68. Jackie T./ bakery Avatar
    Jackie T./ bakery

    I am so very sorry. I worked with Jaime at the Cherry Hill Wegmans. Please accept my sincere condolances.

  69. Mia Johnson Avatar
    Mia Johnson

    Jamie you will be missed by all. You might not know but you help me in so many ways , with your thoughtful kindness in a difficult situation going on in my personal life. I will never forget get you . Rest In Peace.

  70. Susan Orr Avatar
    Susan Orr

    Rest in Peace Jaime. You will be missed by so many. It was a pleasure to have worked for you. My deepest sympathies to your family.

  71. Michelle R. Avatar
    Michelle R.

    Im just so shocked and saddened by the sudden loss of such a beautiful person, anybody that has the pleasure to work or even just know jaime knows what kind of a kind, caring, compassionate person she is, she truly touched the ones who were blessed to know her, rest easy sweet girl , my deepest sympathy to your family xx

  72. Benjamin Chow /Bakery Ocean, New Jersey Avatar
    Benjamin Chow /Bakery Ocean, New Jersey

    Dear Jamie Colling Bello,
    I am very Sorry. You are Best Manager in Ocean, New Jersey. You worked so hard around the store. My deepest Sympathy to your best Friend so long. God bless you.
    Best Regards,
    Benjamin Chow / Bakery in Ocean,Nj

  73. Benjamin Chow /Bakery Ocean, New Jersey Avatar
    Benjamin Chow /Bakery Ocean, New Jersey

    Dear Jamie Colling Bello,
    I am very Sorry. You are Best Manager in Ocean, New Jersey. You worked so hard around the store. My deepest Sympathy to your best Friend so long. God bless you.

    Benjamin Chow / Bakery in Ocean,Nj