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Maxson, David “Scott”
Fairport: Passed peacefully on August 3, 2016 in the Palliative Care Ward at Strong Memorial Hospital surrounded by his loving family. He is survived by his loving and devoted wife, Heidi; his daughter, Brittany; mother-in-law, Wendy Kidder; father-in-law, Chuck (Gale) Kidder; Weslea, his dog; brothers, Steve (Michelle) Maxson, Mark Maxson and sister, Laurie (Edward) Glasgow.
Born in Rochester, New York where he made his home, Scott graduated from McQuaid high school and Oswego State College. He played football at both schools and was a standout all-star linebacker.
Scott worked for Prudential Insurance Company for 19 years, and then started his own business, MoneyMax Group LLC in 1996.
Scott found most joy spending time with his family and friends, in sharing a funny story or good joke, visiting with his clients, with a glass of fine wine. Those who knew him will always remember his witty sense of humor, a warm and caring interest in other’s lives, and the generosity of his time to those who sought his help and advice. In his final years Scott was an inspiration to all, showing tremendous courage and finding the humor in difficult struggles. He taught us to never wait to do the things you most want to do, to take the time and smell the roses, and that it is important to tell the people in your life you love them and appreciate them. Scott had an enduring touch on our lives and will be deeply missed
Scott was a strong face in the battle against ALS in the Rochester area, serving as the honorary chairmen of the Rochester chapter for the national ALS association, attending and speaking at many events in support of ALS research. His courageous battle and service was an important contribution that will someday improve and even save the lives of those stricken by this disease.
The family would like to say a special thank you to the ALS clinic at Strong Memorial Hospital, Cindy Gibson, NP, Dr. Rob Horowitz, all the Dr’s and nurses on the palliative care floor and the three angels on earth who lovingly took care of him the last year, Teresa, Denia and Charlene.
Calling hours, Sunday 1-4 at the Richard H. Keenan Funeral Home (Egypt location), 7501 Pittsford Palmyra Road, Fairport. Memorial Service, Monday 1 PM at Church of the Assumption, Fairport. In lieu of flowers, the family asks to please send donations to the National ALS Association at www.alsa.org.
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8 responses to “Maxson, David “Scott””
Scott was my big brother and he taught me many life lessons. As Scott dealt with the hardships of his disease with dignity, composure and grit, he gave me a final lesson. Witnessing Scott refuse to let the despair of his disease rob him of compassion, joy, laughter and love in his final years – I truly learned what the word courage really means. The great coach Pat Summit said this about her disease: God doesn’t take things away to be cruel. He takes things away to make room for other things. He takes things away to lighten us, so we can fly. Though my heart is heavy, I feel joy because Scott is now free from his failing physical body. His soul is soaring and he’s with our mom and dad, how wonderful that reunion must be. Save a seat for me bro, I love you.
Long, long, time ago, in the ’80s, I met Scott at the JCC. There were several of us, from varied backgrounds with diverse life goals, united by a strong chemistry, an enviable camaraderie. We all admitted, if not out loud, that Scott was the most handsome of the group…you can imagine how he reacted to that…with beautiful humility. He shared his stories, wacky jokes, and wonderful jazz with all of us. I still have the tapes he mixed that served as my introduction to artists like Pat Metheny. With a deep sigh, heavy heart, and wet eyes, I wish you godspeed, Scott, as we were all so fortunate to have been in your circle.
I heard last year that Scott was suffering with ALS. Immediately I thought…how could someone SO strong and vital succumb to such an awful, debilitating disease? Even though I only knew Scott for a short time, my memories of him are full of joyful energy, big smiles, a crazy passion for fun and one of the best laughs ever! He could cook up a mean breakfast too! I agree with you Steve, that God isn’t cruel. He wants us to pass the baton. Sounds like despite his illness, Scott didn’t waste a minute teaching how to “let go and let God”. My deepest sympathy to all of you…I will pray for PEACE.
My deepest sympathies to Heidi and the family. We have lost a wonderful man and I have lost great and loyal friend of 47 years. The sorrow is tempered only by the knowledge that suffering has ended. I have to agree with everyone about Scott’s fabulous sense of humor and lightheartedness that always made you feel good in his presence.
I’d just like to say good-bye here to my dear friend Scott. Being 350 miles away while he was ill was no fun at all. Thanks to the wonderful technology of Skypeing and texting we were able to *see* each other often these last few years. I miss him more than I can say. I echo the others who wrote here in regard to his courage and nobility while dealing with this horrible ALS disease. He sure set the bar high, and remained UNBROKEN (inside story there), while never losing the ability to care for others while he was suffering himself. His beloved wife Heidi was a trooper (understatement of the year) and I am so glad he found her and had her by his side through thick and thin. God Bless, Scott. You will never be forgotten.
My heartfelt sympathies to your family at Scott’s passing. Although I have not seen or spoken with Scott since high school I cherish the memories of our childhood romps and how his personality and bubbly laugh always made me laugh. Those were some good times. I am thankful I was able to reconnect with his brother Steve while he was living in Syracuse and just recently with his sister Laurie via Facebook. I will always carry a special place in my heart for the Maxson family and I know that Scott will be missed greatly. I wish you comfort at this time of grief.
Jody and I got to know Scott on an Erie Ins Cruse .We had the pleasure of dinning with Scoot and his wife every evening. What a great guy! We looked forward to those evening dinners just to here what Scott had to say. Scott was the kind of person that you new was a true gentleman and a very caring person. right from the get-go .The time we spent with Scott was short but I can say without doubt If the world was full of people like Scott it would be a much better place to live. It was good to have known you!
I just learned about Scott’s passing from a friend who is a fellow Rotarian who graduated with Scott from McQuaid. I knew Scott back in the mid 1990’s when I was in insurance. A great guy, with a great smile and laugh to go with it! The Rotary motto is “Service Above Self” and the McQuaid motto is “Men For Others.” Both would seem to apply if Scott had a personal motto.